Ladies, read this article before you do anything to try get your exboyfriend back! I write this from personal experience -- the more things you do wrong, the more likely you are to push your exboyfriend away! In this article, I'm going to share some of the tips I learned that helped me get my ex back, and had him calling me instead of the other way around.
First off, don't be spiteful.
This means that if he ever said anything about you guys being friends, don't spitefully call him a "best friend" on the phone.
If he said anything that unintentionally hurt you, don't spit it back out at him! This is very unattractive to guys and makes you look very emotionally weak, something that guys complain about a lot.
Second of all, call him only once, and make the call brief! Just call to say hello, and nothing more.
Don't get into a big conversation and don't try to say anything rude or spiteful to him.
Just call, say hello, and then say you have to run because you're on your way to doing something.
(It helps if you really are on your way somewhere!) What this does is it makes you seem like you don't need him (which guys hate) since the conversation is so short, that you have moved on and are doing interesting things with your life (which hopefully you are anyway), and it puts you into his mind so you'll be sure he's checking your Facebook and other sites to see what you're up to.
First off, don't be spiteful.
This means that if he ever said anything about you guys being friends, don't spitefully call him a "best friend" on the phone.
If he said anything that unintentionally hurt you, don't spit it back out at him! This is very unattractive to guys and makes you look very emotionally weak, something that guys complain about a lot.
Second of all, call him only once, and make the call brief! Just call to say hello, and nothing more.
Don't get into a big conversation and don't try to say anything rude or spiteful to him.
Just call, say hello, and then say you have to run because you're on your way to doing something.
(It helps if you really are on your way somewhere!) What this does is it makes you seem like you don't need him (which guys hate) since the conversation is so short, that you have moved on and are doing interesting things with your life (which hopefully you are anyway), and it puts you into his mind so you'll be sure he's checking your Facebook and other sites to see what you're up to.
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