Don't insult the memory of your relationship by ending things badly.
It is not the best way to use boyfriend breakup excuses that aren't fit to be heard to try to explain why you're calling the whole thing off.
I know you're only resorting to this because you feel as though you have no other option.
The real reason you're unhappy and want to call things off might be buried so deep that you're not even sure what it really is.
You just know that you're not happy in the relationship and you feel it isn't working for either of you.
Guess what? That honest and open explanation is far better than any of the time honored and truly horrible boyfriend breakup excuses that are constantly being encouraged.
The old "it's not you; it's me" routine only serves to drive the person being dumped insane.
Why should you seek the best way instead of going with the old boyfriend breakup excuses that others are using? Don't Insult his Intelligence Not only is it an insult to his intelligence to use these tired old lines but he can see straight through them.
He knows that this isn't the real reason and may decide to relentlessly pursue the true reason you wanted to call it quits.
Doesn't he Deserve the Truth? If you have any feelings at all left for the guy you're ending things with don't put him through these really bad breakup excuses.
You owe it to him and the memory of what you shared to give him as honest an answer as you are capable of giving (without slinging accusations or hurling insults-not that you would ever do that) about why you're calling things off.
You Owe it to Yourself Just think about how you'd feel if the tables were reversed.
Have the tables been reversed in the past? Were you given one of the famous old brush off lines or were you given an honest reason for the end of your relationship? How did it make you feel? Would it have felt differently if the opposite were true? Chances are it would have.
Don't do it for him alone.
Do it for yourself and countless other women out there who are currently being handed one of those worn out excuses.
Take the time to find the best way and avoid boyfriend breakup excuses that will only do more harm than good for you both.
It is not the best way to use boyfriend breakup excuses that aren't fit to be heard to try to explain why you're calling the whole thing off.
I know you're only resorting to this because you feel as though you have no other option.
The real reason you're unhappy and want to call things off might be buried so deep that you're not even sure what it really is.
You just know that you're not happy in the relationship and you feel it isn't working for either of you.
Guess what? That honest and open explanation is far better than any of the time honored and truly horrible boyfriend breakup excuses that are constantly being encouraged.
The old "it's not you; it's me" routine only serves to drive the person being dumped insane.
Why should you seek the best way instead of going with the old boyfriend breakup excuses that others are using? Don't Insult his Intelligence Not only is it an insult to his intelligence to use these tired old lines but he can see straight through them.
He knows that this isn't the real reason and may decide to relentlessly pursue the true reason you wanted to call it quits.
Doesn't he Deserve the Truth? If you have any feelings at all left for the guy you're ending things with don't put him through these really bad breakup excuses.
You owe it to him and the memory of what you shared to give him as honest an answer as you are capable of giving (without slinging accusations or hurling insults-not that you would ever do that) about why you're calling things off.
You Owe it to Yourself Just think about how you'd feel if the tables were reversed.
Have the tables been reversed in the past? Were you given one of the famous old brush off lines or were you given an honest reason for the end of your relationship? How did it make you feel? Would it have felt differently if the opposite were true? Chances are it would have.
Don't do it for him alone.
Do it for yourself and countless other women out there who are currently being handed one of those worn out excuses.
Take the time to find the best way and avoid boyfriend breakup excuses that will only do more harm than good for you both.
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