Understanding how to get back with your ex girlfriend obviously isn't as easy as simply asking her for another chance.
Sadly, many men approach a break up this way and end up losing any chance they had to get back their ex girlfriend.
If you are serious about regaining her love and devotion you have to approach it as you would any vitally important task and that's with a plan and a clear mind.
You absolutely can win her back if you learn what you need to be doing and what you have to avoid.
Learning how to get back with your ex girlfriend begins with recognizing that she needs some space.
Every fibre of your being is going to want to reach out to her right now.
That's what drives you to call her repeatedly, or text her non-stop in the hope that she'll suddenly realize she can't live without you.
Crowding her when she needs time alone is only going to result in more damage to your relationship.
Most men don't realize that the most important step to getting a woman to love you again is to leave her alone.
You have to let her be and give her time to miss you.
She won't realize how much she needs you if you are always right there.
Give her some breathing room for a few weeks after the break up.
It's also a good idea to not bring her up to mutual friends.
You'll be tempted to ask friends about her or pry them for details about whether or not she's been asking about you.
Remember that whatever you say to someone who knows your ex is inevitably going to get back to her.
You don't want that to happen.
You want her to believe that you're okay and moving forward.
If you do happen to end up at a social event with a friend of hers, keep the conversation focused on anything but your ex.
When her friend tells your ex girlfriend that she saw you (and she will) you want your ex to be taken back by the fact that you didn't ask about her.
This will gnaw at her and make her wonder if you've already forgotten about her.
That will drive her to contact you.