If you just came out of a break-up, if your heart is crushed after the woman you want to be with has just left you, I'm pretty sure that the question above is lingering at the back of your head.
The bad news is - there is VERY little information you could find both in the online and offline world that could REALLY help you during this emotionally crushing and challenging time.
And to make matters worse, a lot of the 'so-called' advice on how to deal with being dumped is nothing but rubbish...
and following it is a surefire way to fall into 2 of the BIGGEST mistakes that you can make when dealing with a break up.
What are these pitfalls you want to avoid like the plague? Check these out.
How To Deal With Being Dumped - BIGGEST Mistake No.
1 So you...
- Bombard her with text messages telling how you miss your ex - Fill their inbox with emails - Call him/her late at night, crying and confessing your love - Stalk your ex ...
imitating what Tony did to get Jane back in the latest chick-flick? Not a good thing! That's instantly fatal, especially if you're having plans about getting your ex back.
Being stalked by someone needy and clingy is the last thing every man or woman wants to happen.
Do that to your ex and you can bet that he/she will run for the hills...
away from you and never to return again.
How To Deal With Being Dumped - BIGGEST Mistake No.
2 "Don't cry about your ex! That's a sign of being feeble and weak!" This is another BIG mistake that almost everyone is making.
Suppressing those not-so-pleasant emotions inside is a surefire way to feel even more bitter about the breakup and your ex.
Crying is a human's natural reaction, a coping mechanism when something bad, something very unpleasant happens.
Fighting against this natural urge will make it harder for you to get over the break up.
So grab a hanky and have a good old cry...
it'll clear your head and you'll feel much better.