Breaking up is one of the worst things a person can go through.
After a break up, the hardest thing to endure is the fact that we we want thing more than to get back together with our ex.
However, just the thought of getting back together can seem like an impossible feat.
We continue to miss the other person and wonder why things went wrong in the first place.
We long to be given another change to start the relationship over with a fresh, new start.
But, is it possible to get another chance at a failed relationship? Only time will tell, or should I say, only timing will tell? Give yourself time: Give yourself permission to take time for yourself.
It may seem impossible because you may be so used to being in a relationship and spending all your quality time with that person that being alone makes you miserable.
Do your best to not think about the other person, at least for a few days.
Find ways to fill the void in your day by keeping yourself busy with other things that interest you.
Staying busy doing things you love is a sure way to keep yourself (and mind) occupied and out of depression.
After you've taken a break from the relationship for a while, then you can think about how to proceed to get her back.
You will see that the time away will give you a chance to evaluate things that went wrong in the relationship so you don't make the same mistake again.
Give her time: Remember that she probably needs time away from you too, so giving her time to think things through and decide if she really wants to be with you.
If she approaches you first, you can be certain that she has had enough time.
On the other hand, if she hasn't made the first move to get you back, that's okay.
It only means that you need to be aware of how she react to you when you decide to make contact with her.
If it is clear that she needs more time, respect that.
If she is receptive to you, then you know it's safe to make your move to get her back.
Give the relationship time: After she has warmed up to you again and you two start talking about things, remember to take things slow at first.
You don't want to rush into the relationship again.
It will take time for things to go back to the way it used to and you were deeply in love with each other.
Each time you make contact with her, remember to take things one step at a time in order to make continuous progress.
The relationship won't revert to where you both feel like soulmates until you are both ready for it The nastier the break up, the more time it will take for the relationship to mend.
If you want nothing more than to get your ex back, be prepared to do whatever is necessary.
As long as there is hope for reconciliation, it is OK to take things slowly, if it means a happier future for the both of you.