You felt totally lost now that you have just broken off with your ex.
It happened all too quick, all too unexpected.
You felt that you were trapped in the past; you just can't seem to move on.
You totally regretted the break-up, and you want to reconcile with you ex and start all over again.
Here are 5 great tips for you to win your ex again and find your way back into love.
1.
Self-reflection.
It is essential that you calm down and do some self-reflection and soul-searching.
Stop blaming your ex for whatever happened.
Ask yourself why the relationship broke-up and what have you done that contributed to the breakup.
Take responsibility of your behavior and actions that you felt contributed to the break-up and work on them.
Work on yourself first before you move onto others.
2.
Pick up your life quickly and learn to appreciate yourself.
Be independent and learn to love yourself all over again.
Do not be clingy towards your ex as this will only make him or her run the other way.
If you are cool and indifferent, at least outwardly about the breakup, he will probably start to wonder why.
Live your life anew, get into hobbies that boost your self-esteem, get out there and meet up with old pals again.
You have to love yourself first, be independent before you can love others.
3.
Apologize and mean it.
So many relationships can be saved through an appropriate apology.
Now that you have done some self-reflection and enhance your self-esteem, you would have no problem admitting your role as part of the break-up.
Take accountability of what happened and sincerely apologies.
So if you want to win your ex back, the first thing you have to do now is to say "I'm sorry", sincerely.
Remember, the apology has to be honest and sincerely, from the bottom of your heart.
4.
Listen and communicate.
Now that you have apologized, it is important that you make the effort to communicate with your ex.
Put your ego down, and truly listen to whatever your ex has to say.
The commitment to communicate is essential in understanding each other, to understand why the break-up happened, and lead the path of the possibility of winning your ex back.
Work towards creating an atmosphere of compassion and trust so that your ex opens up and fell comfortable talking to you.
5.
Get to know each other all over again.
Don't ever take for granted that you have known your ex well enough.
You may have formed a certain negative perceptions or criticism of your ex, after going through a break up, however if you really want to get back together again, push away that all those negative thoughts and ask yourself instead, "What is it actually about this person that I love?" Get curious, ask questions and show interest in your partner.
You might just be surprised with the little new things you find out about him or her! Here you go, 5 easy tips to help you find your way back into love with your ex.
In summary you got to start from yourself first.
Start with a good self-reflection, boost your self-esteem and love yourself.
Once backed with great confidence, approach your ex with a sincerely apology and start communicating.
Listening and communication skills are crucial in any relationship and great effort must be put here.
This way you can get to know each other all over again and before you know it, you are both in love again!
It happened all too quick, all too unexpected.
You felt that you were trapped in the past; you just can't seem to move on.
You totally regretted the break-up, and you want to reconcile with you ex and start all over again.
Here are 5 great tips for you to win your ex again and find your way back into love.
1.
Self-reflection.
It is essential that you calm down and do some self-reflection and soul-searching.
Stop blaming your ex for whatever happened.
Ask yourself why the relationship broke-up and what have you done that contributed to the breakup.
Take responsibility of your behavior and actions that you felt contributed to the break-up and work on them.
Work on yourself first before you move onto others.
2.
Pick up your life quickly and learn to appreciate yourself.
Be independent and learn to love yourself all over again.
Do not be clingy towards your ex as this will only make him or her run the other way.
If you are cool and indifferent, at least outwardly about the breakup, he will probably start to wonder why.
Live your life anew, get into hobbies that boost your self-esteem, get out there and meet up with old pals again.
You have to love yourself first, be independent before you can love others.
3.
Apologize and mean it.
So many relationships can be saved through an appropriate apology.
Now that you have done some self-reflection and enhance your self-esteem, you would have no problem admitting your role as part of the break-up.
Take accountability of what happened and sincerely apologies.
So if you want to win your ex back, the first thing you have to do now is to say "I'm sorry", sincerely.
Remember, the apology has to be honest and sincerely, from the bottom of your heart.
4.
Listen and communicate.
Now that you have apologized, it is important that you make the effort to communicate with your ex.
Put your ego down, and truly listen to whatever your ex has to say.
The commitment to communicate is essential in understanding each other, to understand why the break-up happened, and lead the path of the possibility of winning your ex back.
Work towards creating an atmosphere of compassion and trust so that your ex opens up and fell comfortable talking to you.
5.
Get to know each other all over again.
Don't ever take for granted that you have known your ex well enough.
You may have formed a certain negative perceptions or criticism of your ex, after going through a break up, however if you really want to get back together again, push away that all those negative thoughts and ask yourself instead, "What is it actually about this person that I love?" Get curious, ask questions and show interest in your partner.
You might just be surprised with the little new things you find out about him or her! Here you go, 5 easy tips to help you find your way back into love with your ex.
In summary you got to start from yourself first.
Start with a good self-reflection, boost your self-esteem and love yourself.
Once backed with great confidence, approach your ex with a sincerely apology and start communicating.
Listening and communication skills are crucial in any relationship and great effort must be put here.
This way you can get to know each other all over again and before you know it, you are both in love again!
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