There are many variations on how to get a girl back, but only a few select ways.
Deviate from these and most will tell you, you have no chance of getting a girl.
The typical are: Don't chase - I mean don't beg, don't smother, don't call constantly and don't text her day and night.
Do contact her and let her know you hear her and you yourself need to analyze it all too.
Take note absence makes the heart grow fonder, let it sink in that you and her are not together.
Now take a look at what went wrong, no matter how obvious it may be.
Question yourself why things went wrong.
Did you step out on her? Her on you? Did the relationship get boring? Did you start to take her for granted? You must find out what went wrong and if the reason the breakup happened was a good one, then you must move on.
Once you know what happened, why it happened, and what you want to happen with the relationship you can go forward.
Most will tell now basically that you should get out, be with your friends and do not lock yourself away drowning in self pity.
True this is very true.
They may recommend dating someone else, as it is no secret a woman can get quite jealous.
From here you may get together with the girl you want back and talk about the breakup what you did wrong and what you have learned and then move into the normal techniques to getting a girl.
This is basically a road map for how to get a girl back, I would say it is six of one and a half dozen of another whether you will get her back or not.
I did not get her back, not following the above.
I just needed a different way, a way that allowed my character to shine through.
Tactics that are aggressive, proven and responsive is what I am talking about.