Honesty, change and control form the blueprint to making up with your ex girlfriend.
While there are no magic formulas that will guarantee you success if you follow these 3 steps you can maximise your chances of making up with your ex girlfriend.
Be honest - Every relationship has broken up for a reason and identifying this reason can be a painful process.
This requires you to look at the behaviour of both you and your ex.
You need to consider the causes of the arguments and which needs of your ex girlfriends you were not meeting.
This honesty will allow you to rectify the problems and show your ex that you understand what went wrong.
Make changes - Use your honest reflection of the problems in your relationship to work out what you are going to do to prove to your ex girlfriend you are a changed man.
Remember actions speak louder than words as they show that you are truly committed to making the relationship work.
Take control - The first element of self control is learning how to control your feelings.
Your ex girlfriend does not want to see you appearing desperate and needy.
Although this may be how you are feeling and believe me it is perfectly fine to be feeling so bad it is unfortunately not a quality that is attractive in other people.
As the goal here is to remind your ex girlfriend why she fell in love with you you need to provide her with reasons to want to contact you.
The second element of control is taking control of your part in the break up of the relationship.
It takes a lot of strength to recognise your flaws and mistakes and most people are impressed to see people accept responsibility for themselves.
Showing that you want to rectify the problems and that you are strong enough to do so is a great way to impress your ex.