Many guys do not realize big mistakes they commit in a relationship.
It is only after a breakup they wonder what went wrong.
Then they go in circles trying to find how to get girl back.
Most of times these mistakes happen without realization.
If you want to get girl back seriously then you need to have a plan.
The first step in your plan should be identification of all those silly mistakes you committed without even realization.
This may not be easy.
However you will have to do a complete rewind of events and situations in the past to figure this out.
A good way to go about this would be take help of a friend or a relative.
Explain to your friend all those situations that led to an altercation or a situation when your ex got annoyed.
This may help to speed up the process to get girl back.
If you missed her birthday or neglected her or did not take her out for a nice dinner, then you need to figure out why you did this.
You see most girls want attention, importance and care.
If these factors are missing in a relationship then a breakup is unavoidable.
Women normally look out for new relationships if their wants and needs are not properly satisfied.
If you went around the town with other friends ignoring the girl at home, then this attitude can drive most girls crazy.
If you did this in the past, then you need to figure out a way to spend more time at home with your girlfriend.
This is important if you want to get girl back with you fast.
Once you find out the blunders you committed, you will have to find out solutions for all the mistakes.
As and when you are confident about yourself, you can initiate contact with your ex girlfriend.
Be candid and express your apologies to your girlfriend.
Share with your ex the findings and realization of mistakes.
If your ex still has feelings for you, then you may be able to get girl back.