It can be pretty frustrating when your ex boyfriend rejects every attempt you make to talk sense to him. You feel that if he would only listen to you for a few minutes everything would be alright again. But instead he just keeps pulling farther away. If this is happening to you, these expert tips will pull him back into your arm.
When you have been chasing your ex boyfriend and begging him to listen to you, but he just ignores you, it is time to realize that you should try something different. In fact, if you continue to badger him, he will pull so far away you will never get him back. Take a step back and look at what is happening. Your ex is ignoring you and that is making you desperate to get him back. Why not ignore him and see if it makes him desperate to get you back?
If you suddenly stop chasing him and pleading for him to love you, it will get his attention. When he hears of you being out with your friends and having a great time, it will get his attention even more. Then if you suddenly disappear, your ex boyfriend will really wonder what is going on. Stay out of his sight for a few weeks and let him get really on edge. Take a vacation if possible or visit relatives, anything to stay off his radar.
He will start asking your friends where you are. But, if you are away, they can honestly tell him they have not seen you. This might sound crazy, since he broke up with you, but your ex will feel that you are dumping him. He will imagine you being off somewhere in another guy's arms and it will drive him wild. Men are very possessive and he feels that you are still his girlfriend. Your ex boyfriend will not be able to believe what is happening. Thinking he might have lost you, will start pulling him back to you.
The same sense of loss and rejection you have been feeling will now be his. Your ex will be like any other man. He will not be able to handle loss and rejection. There is a gene in men that makes them have to get back anything they feel they have lost. Since he feels he might have lost you, he will be desperate to get you back. By simply changing your approach, you have turned things completely around. Instead of pulling away from you, your ex boyfriend is being pulled back into your arms.
When you have been chasing your ex boyfriend and begging him to listen to you, but he just ignores you, it is time to realize that you should try something different. In fact, if you continue to badger him, he will pull so far away you will never get him back. Take a step back and look at what is happening. Your ex is ignoring you and that is making you desperate to get him back. Why not ignore him and see if it makes him desperate to get you back?
If you suddenly stop chasing him and pleading for him to love you, it will get his attention. When he hears of you being out with your friends and having a great time, it will get his attention even more. Then if you suddenly disappear, your ex boyfriend will really wonder what is going on. Stay out of his sight for a few weeks and let him get really on edge. Take a vacation if possible or visit relatives, anything to stay off his radar.
He will start asking your friends where you are. But, if you are away, they can honestly tell him they have not seen you. This might sound crazy, since he broke up with you, but your ex will feel that you are dumping him. He will imagine you being off somewhere in another guy's arms and it will drive him wild. Men are very possessive and he feels that you are still his girlfriend. Your ex boyfriend will not be able to believe what is happening. Thinking he might have lost you, will start pulling him back to you.
The same sense of loss and rejection you have been feeling will now be his. Your ex will be like any other man. He will not be able to handle loss and rejection. There is a gene in men that makes them have to get back anything they feel they have lost. Since he feels he might have lost you, he will be desperate to get you back. By simply changing your approach, you have turned things completely around. Instead of pulling away from you, your ex boyfriend is being pulled back into your arms.
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