If you are finding yourself saying "I'm still in love with my ex!", then you have to stop and think about what you want to have happen next. After all, it is only natural that there is some residual love left over. You spent some great times together and at least some point in time you were really close. What does it really mean to you when you say to yourself "I still in love with my ex"?

The first thing you have to ask yourself is are you truly"still in love your ex" or is this residual feelings from a great relationship that ended. If you are just remembering great times together, maybe you should leave those memories in the past and try not to push reconciling. Your relationship (over time)will either redevelop or you will drift away or maybe even remain friends for awhile. After all, their friendship could be invaluable - they know you and let's face it, good friends are hard to find.

However, if you are saying "I'm still in love with my ex!" from a strong emotional tie that you have to that person then you have to be willing to do some work. For one thing, does the other person have any interest in getting back together? If so, what caused the breakup and what needs to change in order to make the relationship work this time. It may be something obvious (at least to you) but this step my require professional advice. Are you or your partner ready to take that step to rebuild your relationship?

If you find yourself saying "I'm still in love with my ex!" there really is no need to panic. Initiate contact, don't push to hard, see if there is interest on the other side and what you both need to do to make it work. Before you know it, you may not be saying "I'm still in love with my ex!" but "I'm in love!".