I have experienced my share of breakups and heartaches.
One thing I learned is that if it's not meant to be then it will not happen.
I cannot force my ex to come back to me at the time frame I give him.
I found out that an ex will call up or better, come back in his own time.
How did I do it? Playing it Cool - Act as if the break up was the most natural thing in the world to happen.
If your ex breaks up with you, don't let him or her know that the news devastated you.
Just say "okay, as you wish".
This will definitely make your ex sweat as he or she thinks of a reason why you pleasantly agreed on the separation.
Go out with your friends - Don't let your ex know that you are sulking and moping because of the breakup.
Call up your friends and go out for a good time.
You may be feeling quite sad because you're missing your ex but don't show it.
The idea is to let your ex know that the breakup did not affect you.
Flirt, if you must -...
with your ex's friends.
This action would definitely speed up your ex's pointer in punching in your numbers on his or her mobile phone.
The scenarios are: your ex is mad at you for flirting with his or her friends or; your ex feels jealous.
Either way, your ex called and that's what's important.
Leave a Message - After weeks of keeping silent about the breakup, it's time to make your move.
Call your ex but make sure he or she is not home.
Just leave a message, a mysterious message that would make your ex call you.
When your ex calls, take it from there.