If you have dumped your boyfriend or are dumped by your boyfriend, then you do not have a short-cut to get him back.
Either you try to get him back in the next 5 minutes and probably suffer a permanent loss, or you do the right homework and stand a high chance to get him back for ever.
See, the biggest catch is that most often a girl is much more deep and passionate than a boy.
A boy often wants to move on without realizing too much of the future, while a girl appreciates the value of her boyfriend much better and is prepared to put in the time, cost and effort to get him back.
While this all probably applies to you as a girl, but what girls most often miss is a knowledge of what to do and what to avoid while trying to get her boy back, and quite often that lead to her failure.
Now, if you put your mind to it, you can win your ex boyfriend back.
The key factor for that is your control over your mind (calmness), discipline and method.
There are some steps you must take and some mistakes you must avoid.
First of all, after the break up, give yourself some time and space to stabilize mentally.
Even if you have recovered, do not contact him in the first two to three weeks - just to make sure that even he is much more in shape.
This is your first do not.
How, then, do you pass these two or three weeks? Get your emotions back perfectly in shape.
Do exactly what you love to do.
Take a break - take a short vacation.
Mentally gear up and make your mind realize that you want your ex boyfriend back and this is not the right time for that.
This leads you to more self-confidence.
You shall discover other parts of your life outside him better than you had ever known before.
In fact, this plays a great role on your mindset in latter phases of getting him back.
Not only that, this makes you a little away for now from him, and guys are attracted much more to girls who are not over-enthusiastic about relationships (unlike girls).
This makes your ex miss you even more, and in particular the moments when he had your love, attention and affection.
Chances are high that your ex will call you back and ask for a date within the first three weeks.
If he does, great, just accept it.
If not then just call him and ask for a short date.
Remember, no break down, fight or "I miss you" over the phone.
Simply ask for a lunch.
Then, dress up well.
Make sure you look good.
And have a nice date with a lot of fun.
No history lessons.
No back-tracking.
Simply enjoy your date with him.
Either you try to get him back in the next 5 minutes and probably suffer a permanent loss, or you do the right homework and stand a high chance to get him back for ever.
See, the biggest catch is that most often a girl is much more deep and passionate than a boy.
A boy often wants to move on without realizing too much of the future, while a girl appreciates the value of her boyfriend much better and is prepared to put in the time, cost and effort to get him back.
While this all probably applies to you as a girl, but what girls most often miss is a knowledge of what to do and what to avoid while trying to get her boy back, and quite often that lead to her failure.
Now, if you put your mind to it, you can win your ex boyfriend back.
The key factor for that is your control over your mind (calmness), discipline and method.
There are some steps you must take and some mistakes you must avoid.
First of all, after the break up, give yourself some time and space to stabilize mentally.
Even if you have recovered, do not contact him in the first two to three weeks - just to make sure that even he is much more in shape.
This is your first do not.
How, then, do you pass these two or three weeks? Get your emotions back perfectly in shape.
Do exactly what you love to do.
Take a break - take a short vacation.
Mentally gear up and make your mind realize that you want your ex boyfriend back and this is not the right time for that.
This leads you to more self-confidence.
You shall discover other parts of your life outside him better than you had ever known before.
In fact, this plays a great role on your mindset in latter phases of getting him back.
Not only that, this makes you a little away for now from him, and guys are attracted much more to girls who are not over-enthusiastic about relationships (unlike girls).
This makes your ex miss you even more, and in particular the moments when he had your love, attention and affection.
Chances are high that your ex will call you back and ask for a date within the first three weeks.
If he does, great, just accept it.
If not then just call him and ask for a short date.
Remember, no break down, fight or "I miss you" over the phone.
Simply ask for a lunch.
Then, dress up well.
Make sure you look good.
And have a nice date with a lot of fun.
No history lessons.
No back-tracking.
Simply enjoy your date with him.
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