All is not lost if you have recently broken up.
This is a simple plan to show you how to win back your ex.
Most of it is common sense with a little insider information thrown in.
This thought might be hard to swallow, but sometimes things do happen for a reason so just take this event as a learning experience and try to make it right for both of you.
The very first thing you must understand is why your partner wanted to end the relationship in the first place.
This step is very important because without it you will be working blind with no accurate goal.
What you also must do in this step is be very honest with yourself.
By lying to yourself and not accepting the truth will only hurt you because you can never solve what was wrong with the relationship in the first place.
Once you have a clear and accurate idea what was wrong then and only then should you try to contact your ex.
It is best to initially write either an email or personal note.
In it explain your view of the breakup and maybe why it is not good for both of you.
It is extremely important not to appear needy or on the other side angry.
It will only push them away, If you are needy and constantly telling your ex you can't live without them it will push them away.
On the flip side if you accuse or try to place blame on them that will also push them away.
No one wants to listen to someone blaming them.
They will usually choose not to listen and this time it could be for good.
Try to include points as to why your relationship worked in the first place.
Talk about your common beliefs and why you think they are a great person and why this relationship even though it had some bumps could work.
Again, don't appear needy.
Explain your views and then end the note by trying to arrange a face to face.
It could be a meeting over coffee or dinner.
Maybe try to arrange a date where you can both have some fun and rekindle what you once had and also you can try to work out any differences.
Whatever you do try, keep the note light and somewhat fun.
Make your ex think about the fun you both had when you where together.
Bring back the feelings you both had for each other when the relationship started.
This can happen by truly understanding what happened to the relationship in the first place.
Just be honest with your self and with your ex and there is a very good chance that the relationship can re-ignite itself into a much better and more fulfilling journey for both of you.
This is a simple plan to show you how to win back your ex.
Most of it is common sense with a little insider information thrown in.
This thought might be hard to swallow, but sometimes things do happen for a reason so just take this event as a learning experience and try to make it right for both of you.
The very first thing you must understand is why your partner wanted to end the relationship in the first place.
This step is very important because without it you will be working blind with no accurate goal.
What you also must do in this step is be very honest with yourself.
By lying to yourself and not accepting the truth will only hurt you because you can never solve what was wrong with the relationship in the first place.
Once you have a clear and accurate idea what was wrong then and only then should you try to contact your ex.
It is best to initially write either an email or personal note.
In it explain your view of the breakup and maybe why it is not good for both of you.
It is extremely important not to appear needy or on the other side angry.
It will only push them away, If you are needy and constantly telling your ex you can't live without them it will push them away.
On the flip side if you accuse or try to place blame on them that will also push them away.
No one wants to listen to someone blaming them.
They will usually choose not to listen and this time it could be for good.
Try to include points as to why your relationship worked in the first place.
Talk about your common beliefs and why you think they are a great person and why this relationship even though it had some bumps could work.
Again, don't appear needy.
Explain your views and then end the note by trying to arrange a face to face.
It could be a meeting over coffee or dinner.
Maybe try to arrange a date where you can both have some fun and rekindle what you once had and also you can try to work out any differences.
Whatever you do try, keep the note light and somewhat fun.
Make your ex think about the fun you both had when you where together.
Bring back the feelings you both had for each other when the relationship started.
This can happen by truly understanding what happened to the relationship in the first place.
Just be honest with your self and with your ex and there is a very good chance that the relationship can re-ignite itself into a much better and more fulfilling journey for both of you.
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