One of the worst things about breaking up is knowing that you can no longer see the person you shared such a great connection with.
Perhaps, they have already started moving on which is searing to the heart once you see your ex with someone else.
It is a painful experience and no matter what age you are it can be one of the most painful things to live through, especially if you have claimed your love to them.
Here are some tips I used to get my boyfriend back and I hope that they will work for you as well.
However, keep this motto in mind.
"If you set something free and it comes back to you, it's yours.
If it doesn't than it never was.
" This motto applies here because you should never try to hold onto something that doesn't want to be with you.
You should hold tight to the people who treasure and let everyone else go.
Those who you choose to let go of will see that you are something to hold onto and want to be in your life or they won't.
Either way you have done the right thing by letting go.
The first tip on I used to get my boyfriend back is the ignore rule.
Simply ignore that he even exists at the moment.
Your heart will tell you different and even your brain might say you are nuts for doing so.
This however, is an important step to take in the process of getting your boyfriend back.
Do not answer your phone if he calls, do not answer texts and do not put yourself in the same place that he might show up at.
Instead, hand out with your girls and have the time of your life.
At this moment, you should be working on you.
Get your hair done, your nails done or even take a "you" day at the spa.
Let him have some time to think about his relationship with you and why he broke up with you.
This is an important time for him to reflect and you need to let him do that.
Look at your relationship and find out what went wrong and see if it something that can be changed and if you are willing to change it to be with him.
Just remember that you should never change everything about you just to please a man, though we all have pet peeves that some cannot stand.
So if it is something that is not changing you in some extreme way then change it.
Give yourself time to get over him, because that is what he is trying to do.
You always have to get over someone before starting another relationship and the rule applies here as well.
A new outlook into the relationship can only bring on a better relationship in the future.
These tips are how I got my boyfriend back and I hope they work for you.
Good Luck!