It's not a secret that people retract their statements after the fact.
Same can be said on break-ups, and this desire to turn back time is further strengthened when the ex apparently found new love.
Before you consider desperate measures to win your ex back, you have to breathe deeply and maintain focus.
Though it may seem like the most important goal in your life is to win your ex back, whatever means necessary, what about your responsibility to yourself and your karma? Things can go wrong when you try to force destiny to conform to your likes and dislikes.
True, you want to charge at them, probably ripping your ex's new flame's hair and giving them a shiner, but you also know deep in your heart that's totally wrong.
Making bad choices can only hurt you as a person, turn your reputation a bad example, and a possible reconciliation will go up in smoke.
So how do you go about winning them back? How about not wanting them back? A huge number of people are testament to this phenomenon.
Apparently not wanting them back can actually help you win your ex back.
Dating other people keeps your mind occupied, your social calendar a jungle, and your self-esteem getting a much needed boost.
Confidence attracts attention, so you can be sure you will be able to capture your ex's attention.
When you're genuinely sure of yourself, you give off an aura of palpable confidence that makes people gravitate towards you and that might be just the thing you need to win your ex back.
Your ex may be in a relationship at the moment, but if it's most likely a rebound, they'd be re-examining their chances of winning you back instead.
You get what you want without stepping on anyone's toes, and get to enjoy meeting new people and empowering yourself to boot!