Are you wondering if there is anything you can do to get your ex boyfriend back? Do you feel like everything you try pushes him further away? Are asking yourself if there isn't just one more thing you haven't tried yet? Here are a few ideas that will give you that extra edge in getting back together with your ex boyfriend.
If you're reading this then you are actively seeking ways to repair your relationship.
It will be frustrating for both you and your ex if you try to force the issue and place too much importance on the 'here and now'.
You will just hurt your chances by becoming too anxious.
Are you constantly calling, emailing, or texting him? In your messages, are you trying to draw sympathy from him, or even a feeling of guilt? If you are, then take a step back, compose yourself, and try a different approach.
So how can you get your ex back? Try something new and fresh.
Stop trying to contact him for awhile.
Take time just for yourself.
Find out about who you are, what you like, and spend time focusing on your own life.
It won't be easy and it's going to take a conscious effort to keep you from trying to get in contact with your ex, but this can be an important step in the healing process.
While all of this is happening, your ex may wonder what you're doing or feeling.
He might be trying to figure out just what's going on with you.
This can be a positive time because you've given your ex a chance to actually miss you, which is not happening when you're constantly calling, emailing or texting him.
What you must realize is that restoring a relationship using these tips requires you to fight your instincts to re-establish immediate communication.
Now you have some information on how you can increase the chances of restoring your relationship.
Stay focused by making a conscious effort to avoid contacting him.
Be mysterious.
Take time for yourself and do something just for you.
Let him make the first move and you'll both benefit from the experience.