how Most men do not understand the "real" reasons a woman has left them.
They tend to think that it was a once of event; something they said.
Maybe it was something I did? The real answer lies in the fact that attraction is not a choice.
She has left because the passion, the spark, the "attraction" has been forgotten and the relationship has become boring and stale! So how do I make sure that my relationship does not end up that way? The answer is pretty simple.
Confidence It's pretty well known now-a-days that women are attracted to confident men.
You hear a group of women talk about what they see in their man and you will hear them say they where "first" attracted to things like the way you looked into her eyes or perhaps it was the way you walked across the room or it may have been something else but the theme is clear.
It is those confident and attractive qualities that drew her to you in the first place.
Her biological programming told her that that's what she wants and she went for it! Psychology has helped us understand her evolutionary process and even explain why she feels that way but how does that help us in this situation? First if we trigger this attraction again...
well anyone with half a brain knows what that will lead to! There is already the emotional connection.
So how do we trigger this attraction? Confidence.
Yes, I know I'm talking in circles so I will move on and provide you with several of the secrets to making yourself appear more confident; not only to your ex but people in general
They tend to think that it was a once of event; something they said.
Maybe it was something I did? The real answer lies in the fact that attraction is not a choice.
She has left because the passion, the spark, the "attraction" has been forgotten and the relationship has become boring and stale! So how do I make sure that my relationship does not end up that way? The answer is pretty simple.
Confidence It's pretty well known now-a-days that women are attracted to confident men.
You hear a group of women talk about what they see in their man and you will hear them say they where "first" attracted to things like the way you looked into her eyes or perhaps it was the way you walked across the room or it may have been something else but the theme is clear.
It is those confident and attractive qualities that drew her to you in the first place.
Her biological programming told her that that's what she wants and she went for it! Psychology has helped us understand her evolutionary process and even explain why she feels that way but how does that help us in this situation? First if we trigger this attraction again...
well anyone with half a brain knows what that will lead to! There is already the emotional connection.
So how do we trigger this attraction? Confidence.
Yes, I know I'm talking in circles so I will move on and provide you with several of the secrets to making yourself appear more confident; not only to your ex but people in general
- Leadership.
- Direct and lead the way.
Everyone knows that a leader is confident and she is no different. - Independence - Show her that you are an individual and that you do not need her
- Make Decisions - Decision makers believe in themselves and their values.
A true sign of confidence. - Indifference - Show her that you are not Someone who is attached to the outcome.
- Gestures - Slow and diliberate verbal and physical gestures are on of the keys to showing you are a confident person
- Voice Tone - Lower voice tones and slower pace
- Posture - Upright spine and "leaned back" posture are indicative of confident mindset.
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