If you have really made up your mind that your ex is the right person for you but are in a fix how to get your ex back then here are some points you can consider.
You may think that in order to get your ex back you should go and request him or her to come back in to your life.
That's not the way to go.
There are several ways you can win your love back if you are patient and persistent.
My first suggestion may surprise you.
You should stop communicating with your ex in case you are doing it right now.
Well, how does that help? Let there be a real break up.
Let there be a gap between you and your ex.
This helps both of you to clear your head first.
After a break up, your head is filled with negative emotions - resentment, anger, fear, ego problems, confusion and so on.
These will come on the way of clear thinking.
When you keep a silent period, often the problem solves by itself.
Either you understand that your ex is not the right person for you or you know for sure that your ex is the person you are looking for.
However, you should take care that you don't go into depression, or into the past.
To avoid such an effect, you should go out and move with friends, You may go for a picnic or do something you like.
Let the negativity die first.
Groom your hair properly, Dress well and attractively.
Displaying signs of desperation in front of ex is only going to ruin things.
Instead of sympathizing with you, she is likely to ignore you because of your negativity.
No one likes a depressed person.
On the contrary, if you show off your positive qualities, it will be attractive to her and others.
She would take a liking for you.
That's the way you win relationships.
Not by cunning words or trickery.
However, you may flirt with another girl or start talking to another girl.
This might cause your ex much pain and may arouse feelings for you again.
Remember, not to overdo it.
It should be just fun.