It is very funny how we start missing a thing only after it is gone.
While your relationship was going strong, you would have seen a 1001 reasons that pointed you in opposite direction; now that your love has become your ex, your heart aches to have him/ her back into your arms.
Don't worry.
This happens almost to every second person in love.
All is not lost; in all probability your ex too misses you and wants to get back into the relationship that has just dissolved.
However, it is always difficult to take that first step.
Here are 7 things that you need to do to get your ex back: 1.
Take the first step - get in touch with your ex.
Call her/ him and fix a meeting; observe that the term used here is 'meeting' not 'date'.
Ask for time where you could discuss a few things for better emotional closure.
2.
Go with an unconditional apology - say you are sorry to see that things went wrong.
Work hard at identifying what created the first crack in your relationship; what eroded it; what killed it.
This is very important for this has to be weeded out from the mind and the heart before you can think of starting a new lease.
3.
Listen - talk less and listen more.
Create an ambiance where your ex would be able to share with you freely, without any strings, any interruptions how he/she felt about what happened between the two of you.
Listen carefully to what he/ she says.
This is the key to happiness and a healthy long lasting relationship.
4.
Be fun to be around - stay light and be fun to be around.
Do not expect your ex to fall back into your arms like a ripe fruit.
You will have to work your way into his/ her heart again.
The best place to start is by making your ex as comfortable and happy as you can while he/ she is in your vicinity.
5.
Befriend your ex friends - be extra nice to his/ her friends.
They could be your bets allies if you play your cards right.
Ensure that they have only good things to talk about you.
They are trusted and they have the ear of your ex; a word from here in your favor would go a long way.
6.
Move on - make a show that you are moving on.
Go out with people, have fun, have a life.
7.
Let your ex know you still have feelings for him/ her - let your ex know with no strings attached.
Be ready to live happily ever after.
While your relationship was going strong, you would have seen a 1001 reasons that pointed you in opposite direction; now that your love has become your ex, your heart aches to have him/ her back into your arms.
Don't worry.
This happens almost to every second person in love.
All is not lost; in all probability your ex too misses you and wants to get back into the relationship that has just dissolved.
However, it is always difficult to take that first step.
Here are 7 things that you need to do to get your ex back: 1.
Take the first step - get in touch with your ex.
Call her/ him and fix a meeting; observe that the term used here is 'meeting' not 'date'.
Ask for time where you could discuss a few things for better emotional closure.
2.
Go with an unconditional apology - say you are sorry to see that things went wrong.
Work hard at identifying what created the first crack in your relationship; what eroded it; what killed it.
This is very important for this has to be weeded out from the mind and the heart before you can think of starting a new lease.
3.
Listen - talk less and listen more.
Create an ambiance where your ex would be able to share with you freely, without any strings, any interruptions how he/she felt about what happened between the two of you.
Listen carefully to what he/ she says.
This is the key to happiness and a healthy long lasting relationship.
4.
Be fun to be around - stay light and be fun to be around.
Do not expect your ex to fall back into your arms like a ripe fruit.
You will have to work your way into his/ her heart again.
The best place to start is by making your ex as comfortable and happy as you can while he/ she is in your vicinity.
5.
Befriend your ex friends - be extra nice to his/ her friends.
They could be your bets allies if you play your cards right.
Ensure that they have only good things to talk about you.
They are trusted and they have the ear of your ex; a word from here in your favor would go a long way.
6.
Move on - make a show that you are moving on.
Go out with people, have fun, have a life.
7.
Let your ex know you still have feelings for him/ her - let your ex know with no strings attached.
Be ready to live happily ever after.
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