If you are in a position where you have to think of getting your girlfriend back, analyze first your situation.
Did she leave you or did you initiate the breakup? Where did all the romance go and how did you decide on the reason for ending the relationship? If you come to the conclusion that she left you, you need to introspect and look for the reason that caused her to take that extreme step.
Were you disrespect her in anyway and treated her badly? If that was the reason then you need to make some serious effort to change yourself and your behavior.
The effort must be serious and not superficial, and make the same change in the way you behave towards others.
Take a real close look at your behaviour and ask your friends to help you out and suggest to you what they think were the reasons why your girlfriend left you.
And if you find even a bit of truth on what they say as the reasons of your girlfriend leaving you, you need to make a serious effort at improving yourself.
However, if the reason for the breakup is that you decided to leave her, you need to seriously examine the situation, and if you find out that you have made a mistake in leaving her, you have some real repairs to make.
You must know how much your action has hurt her and you should have to assess whether she harbors any resentment against you because you initiated the breakup.
Give her a little time to get over the hurt.
Do not overwhelm her again with affection.
Just keep your distance and let her work out her resentment.
Just let her know that you are around.
You have to spend a lot of time convincing her that you have made a big mistake in getting out of her life and that you will never do it again.
Give her some time and space and let her know that you are sincere and always available for her, without crowding her or demanding her attention.
If the resentment is deep you may have to wait for a long time, and if she has been the sort of person you want in your life, you have to let her know that she is worth waiting for and you will make the sacrifice.
Maybe the breakup happened because you just drifted apart.
Then you need to talk to her and let her know that you really need her in your life again and you're willing to work on whatever went wrong between the two you, so that you can get together again.
You have to let her know that she is always very special in your life, and that you are willing to even seek a professional advice to help get your relationship to where it was before.
This may convince her that you are making a real effort to get back with her and that she could let you in to her life once again.
This frank and fearless introspection of what went wrong in your relationship will almost definitely lead you to find a solution and ways to get your girl friend back.
Step back and see the mistakes that you both made, and especially in your case, make a sincere effort to correct things so that your girlfriend will see the effort that you are putting in and it may encourage her to do likewise and get back to you once again.
Did she leave you or did you initiate the breakup? Where did all the romance go and how did you decide on the reason for ending the relationship? If you come to the conclusion that she left you, you need to introspect and look for the reason that caused her to take that extreme step.
Were you disrespect her in anyway and treated her badly? If that was the reason then you need to make some serious effort to change yourself and your behavior.
The effort must be serious and not superficial, and make the same change in the way you behave towards others.
Take a real close look at your behaviour and ask your friends to help you out and suggest to you what they think were the reasons why your girlfriend left you.
And if you find even a bit of truth on what they say as the reasons of your girlfriend leaving you, you need to make a serious effort at improving yourself.
However, if the reason for the breakup is that you decided to leave her, you need to seriously examine the situation, and if you find out that you have made a mistake in leaving her, you have some real repairs to make.
You must know how much your action has hurt her and you should have to assess whether she harbors any resentment against you because you initiated the breakup.
Give her a little time to get over the hurt.
Do not overwhelm her again with affection.
Just keep your distance and let her work out her resentment.
Just let her know that you are around.
You have to spend a lot of time convincing her that you have made a big mistake in getting out of her life and that you will never do it again.
Give her some time and space and let her know that you are sincere and always available for her, without crowding her or demanding her attention.
If the resentment is deep you may have to wait for a long time, and if she has been the sort of person you want in your life, you have to let her know that she is worth waiting for and you will make the sacrifice.
Maybe the breakup happened because you just drifted apart.
Then you need to talk to her and let her know that you really need her in your life again and you're willing to work on whatever went wrong between the two you, so that you can get together again.
You have to let her know that she is always very special in your life, and that you are willing to even seek a professional advice to help get your relationship to where it was before.
This may convince her that you are making a real effort to get back with her and that she could let you in to her life once again.
This frank and fearless introspection of what went wrong in your relationship will almost definitely lead you to find a solution and ways to get your girl friend back.
Step back and see the mistakes that you both made, and especially in your case, make a sincere effort to correct things so that your girlfriend will see the effort that you are putting in and it may encourage her to do likewise and get back to you once again.
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