If the love of your life has suddenly broken up with you and you're determined to win them back, then take the following advice to heart.
There are many paths you can take and whilst some will work wonders, others will only make things worse.
Make sure you choose wisely, grasshopper.
This article is aimed at those whose relationship has been ongoing for a good while.
If you have only been dating for a matter of weeks, it may just be that you are incompatible and perhaps you should accept it and move on with your life.
If you had an established relationship however, things are different and a break up can usually be reversed.
Think of how many couples you know who have split one week only to be back together a week or two later.
The best advice on how to get your ex back is...
1) Give your ex some time alone.
Let your ex experience life without you for a while.
If they have real feelings for you, they are bound to miss you.
If, on the other hand, you follow your gut instinct to call, text, email, call on them at every opportunity, you're just going annoy them and push them further away from you.
It's hard to do because you feel the you must speak to them and beg for another chance, profess undying love and so on.
Now is not the time! 2) To have any real chance of getting your ex back (and then keep them), you must uncover the true reasons for the break up.
Something happened to make your partner want to break up with you.
Maybe it was a combination of several things that just became too much for them.
Think long and hard about why you broke up and then decide whether you can fix it.
If you identify a particular thing and sincerely vow to rectify it, you're giving yourself the best chance possible to win your ex back.
For example, you realize your ex called it a day because you took them for granted all the time and paid them few, if any compliments.
Imagine their reaction when you admit to this and vow most sincerely to them never to do it again.
They're bound to think twice and if there's any love there, you'll be back in with a chance.
3) Now you need a master plan which plots out exactly when & what to do and say to give you the best chances of persuading your ex to get back together with you.
You may need some help with this plan because you cannot afford to fail if you truly love your ex and must have them back in your arms.
Such a plan will include how to break the ice with your ex (do you ring, send them a romantic letter, get someone to pass a message), how to arrange a get-together, how to behave and so on.
There are many paths you can take and whilst some will work wonders, others will only make things worse.
Make sure you choose wisely, grasshopper.
This article is aimed at those whose relationship has been ongoing for a good while.
If you have only been dating for a matter of weeks, it may just be that you are incompatible and perhaps you should accept it and move on with your life.
If you had an established relationship however, things are different and a break up can usually be reversed.
Think of how many couples you know who have split one week only to be back together a week or two later.
The best advice on how to get your ex back is...
1) Give your ex some time alone.
Let your ex experience life without you for a while.
If they have real feelings for you, they are bound to miss you.
If, on the other hand, you follow your gut instinct to call, text, email, call on them at every opportunity, you're just going annoy them and push them further away from you.
It's hard to do because you feel the you must speak to them and beg for another chance, profess undying love and so on.
Now is not the time! 2) To have any real chance of getting your ex back (and then keep them), you must uncover the true reasons for the break up.
Something happened to make your partner want to break up with you.
Maybe it was a combination of several things that just became too much for them.
Think long and hard about why you broke up and then decide whether you can fix it.
If you identify a particular thing and sincerely vow to rectify it, you're giving yourself the best chance possible to win your ex back.
For example, you realize your ex called it a day because you took them for granted all the time and paid them few, if any compliments.
Imagine their reaction when you admit to this and vow most sincerely to them never to do it again.
They're bound to think twice and if there's any love there, you'll be back in with a chance.
3) Now you need a master plan which plots out exactly when & what to do and say to give you the best chances of persuading your ex to get back together with you.
You may need some help with this plan because you cannot afford to fail if you truly love your ex and must have them back in your arms.
Such a plan will include how to break the ice with your ex (do you ring, send them a romantic letter, get someone to pass a message), how to arrange a get-together, how to behave and so on.
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