If you are in the situation of being in a troubled relationship, you may be feeling confused or unsure of what to do next.
Sometimes there are so many factors to consider and emotions running high that you become overwhelmed.
This article aims to help you figure out if there is trouble in your relationship and the signs to look for in determining this.
Sometimes we know deep down that there is trouble in the relationship but instead of taking action it is sometimes easier to go into denial.
This may provide us with a short term solution to the problem but in order to truly be happy, we need to find a way to move on.
The scary truth is that moving on might mean breaking up.
If there has been a very close, loving relationship in the beginning, then this might seem like an almost unbearable option.
Of course, you may decide that you can overcome trouble in your relationship and find a way to move forward in a positive and way.
The point is, you have to make a decision.
Remaining in a stagnant and stressful situation is not going to make either of you happy, and will probably make things even more tense and uneasy between you.
Making a list of your wants and desires within the relationship will help you come to a decision.
Is it romance you desire? Spontaneity? Intellectual stimulation? Once you have this list, firstly determine if these things are realistic.
You can then try to figure out if your partner is capable of satisfying you in these areas.
This needs to happen in order for your relationship to move forward.
If things seem really desperate, perhaps separation in something worth considering.
It doesn't mean you have to break up, it just gives both parties a chance to remove themselves from the situation and contemplate whether the trouble in your relationship is repairable or not.
If you are experiencing trouble in your relationship, just try to keep a calm head.
It doesn't necessarily mean that breaking up is definite.
All relationships experience some kind of friction, what matters is how you deal with it.
Sometimes there are so many factors to consider and emotions running high that you become overwhelmed.
This article aims to help you figure out if there is trouble in your relationship and the signs to look for in determining this.
Sometimes we know deep down that there is trouble in the relationship but instead of taking action it is sometimes easier to go into denial.
This may provide us with a short term solution to the problem but in order to truly be happy, we need to find a way to move on.
The scary truth is that moving on might mean breaking up.
If there has been a very close, loving relationship in the beginning, then this might seem like an almost unbearable option.
Of course, you may decide that you can overcome trouble in your relationship and find a way to move forward in a positive and way.
The point is, you have to make a decision.
Remaining in a stagnant and stressful situation is not going to make either of you happy, and will probably make things even more tense and uneasy between you.
Making a list of your wants and desires within the relationship will help you come to a decision.
Is it romance you desire? Spontaneity? Intellectual stimulation? Once you have this list, firstly determine if these things are realistic.
You can then try to figure out if your partner is capable of satisfying you in these areas.
This needs to happen in order for your relationship to move forward.
If things seem really desperate, perhaps separation in something worth considering.
It doesn't mean you have to break up, it just gives both parties a chance to remove themselves from the situation and contemplate whether the trouble in your relationship is repairable or not.
If you are experiencing trouble in your relationship, just try to keep a calm head.
It doesn't necessarily mean that breaking up is definite.
All relationships experience some kind of friction, what matters is how you deal with it.
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