You are so into her but she is not that into you? Here are 5 simple things that you can do to improve yourself in order to get an ex girlfriend back: 1.
Change your style.
Yes, it is time for a makeover.
Though your physical appearances might not be the reason why you two broke up, a change in style and outlook will give you a new sense of confidence.
Women are known to cut their hair every time they want to start fresh.
For men, it is all about the style.
2.
Revamp your life.
Change your lifestyle a little.
If you used to sit in the library and read books all the time, maybe it is time for you to go out a bit and see the world.
This does not mean that you should go out to clubs and get drunk.
It means that you should start meeting up new people and take a good look at your surroundings.
You never know what you have missed after all these years.
Going out helps you to clear your mind of things that you have thought made your life miserable.
3.
Learn new skills.
It can be anything.
From something physical such as martial arts or something which is totally opposite of you such as baking and knitting, try to learn something new.
When you start to learn new things, your mind will automatically become more optimistic to the environment around you.
A break up often made people feels depressed.
Negative thinking will not get you your ex girlfriend back.
4.
Keep yourself updated with the latest news in the world of women.
Yes, the world of women is one of the most active worlds in the whole universe.
From fashion to make up to the latest news on the new type of roses, get yourself updated.
This will never turn you into a sissy.
It will only make you more marketable among girls.
Who would not want a guy who knows and understand about their world? 5.
Tell her about it.
When you change your style, take a picture of yourself and put it on a card.
Write that you want her back on it and slip the card into her mailbox.
The next time you want to visit the new café across her apartment, give her a call and ask her to go with you.
Tell her it is always good to go visit a new place with another person, especially someone special like her.
The next time you successfully bake her favorite chocolate cake, give a piece to her and her friends.
And when the next shopping spree arrives, call her and let her know the best time to go for it.
All in all, these steps have not just made you a better guy, but also a better person.
It shows that you are capable of changing yourself for the better.
It proves to her that you are capable of change, and the relationship that you two might have in the future might not be a rerun of the past.
Indirectly, it tells her to give you a chance at a change that might be good for both of you.