When you go through a break up, it can feel as though nobody else could possibly understand the pain you are going through.
However, I've had experience helping thousands of people who are experiencing the hardest time of their life, and all they really want is to be back together with their ex.
If you have lost your girlfriend, then I understand the pain you are feeling right now.
Fortunately, I'm here to tell you that you can win her back, and she will be so grateful and loving to you once you are back together.
First Steps to Win Her Back, Heart and Soul However, every relationship is unique in its own way.
You must first ask yourself: Why did the break up happen? What is she missing from your relationship? My main advice to couples who have just broken up is this.
Agree to the break up - don't go against her wishes at the present time.
If she wants a little time off, then you are only going to aggravate her by trying to force your way back in, and this will serve to push you further and further apart.
By agreeing to some time off, it accomplishes three things.
1) You have some time to cool down.
Emotions run high when love is at stake, and people can do some rash things in times like these.
A few days or a few weeks apart allow you to come to terms with what has happened, and then it will be more natural for you to start seeing her 'as a friend'.
This is a great stepping stone to get things going again.
2) She will be able to take a step back and see what she is missing.
If you are always ringing her or leaving her messages, then she can't come to terms with what splitting up would mean to her, either.
3) Once some time has elapsed, you can do what is necessary to win her back.
I would advise little or no contact during this period, just to make sure that she will be open to seeing you again in a more friendly visit later on.
When you do meet up as friends, you have to be careful.
Keep the visit short, and make sure there is no suggestion that you are only there to see if she will take you back.
Have fun with her, show her what she would be missing - but don't say so explicitly.
When you see that things have gone well, then cut the meeting short and say you have somewhere to be.
The trick is to keep her wanting more.
However, I've had experience helping thousands of people who are experiencing the hardest time of their life, and all they really want is to be back together with their ex.
If you have lost your girlfriend, then I understand the pain you are feeling right now.
Fortunately, I'm here to tell you that you can win her back, and she will be so grateful and loving to you once you are back together.
First Steps to Win Her Back, Heart and Soul However, every relationship is unique in its own way.
You must first ask yourself: Why did the break up happen? What is she missing from your relationship? My main advice to couples who have just broken up is this.
Agree to the break up - don't go against her wishes at the present time.
If she wants a little time off, then you are only going to aggravate her by trying to force your way back in, and this will serve to push you further and further apart.
By agreeing to some time off, it accomplishes three things.
1) You have some time to cool down.
Emotions run high when love is at stake, and people can do some rash things in times like these.
A few days or a few weeks apart allow you to come to terms with what has happened, and then it will be more natural for you to start seeing her 'as a friend'.
This is a great stepping stone to get things going again.
2) She will be able to take a step back and see what she is missing.
If you are always ringing her or leaving her messages, then she can't come to terms with what splitting up would mean to her, either.
3) Once some time has elapsed, you can do what is necessary to win her back.
I would advise little or no contact during this period, just to make sure that she will be open to seeing you again in a more friendly visit later on.
When you do meet up as friends, you have to be careful.
Keep the visit short, and make sure there is no suggestion that you are only there to see if she will take you back.
Have fun with her, show her what she would be missing - but don't say so explicitly.
When you see that things have gone well, then cut the meeting short and say you have somewhere to be.
The trick is to keep her wanting more.
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