When couples reach the point of breaking up there are many contributing factors that typically come into play.
From slowly withdrawing, detaching, easily angered, and mainly an unwillingness to spending quality time with each other, the signs are direct and very easy to read.
If not addressed quickly, the fate of the relationship is pretty clear, it is going to end! So how do I get back on the same page with my ex again? How do I get us back to where we were when we first met? How do I win back my ex? Well, I am here to help, here is my top 3 steps on how to get an ex back.
STEP #1- RESPECTIVELY BACK WAY OFF This is the hardest step towards getting your ex back for most people because you are unsure that if you give your partner their space that they actually might like it and never want you back,right? Well, that might happen, for now.
But if this move is played perfectly, they will soon have the space and time to actually miss you.
Men and women alike NEED SPACE, that is not necessarily a bad thing.
Give it to them! I cannot stress this enough.
If you play this hand right, given time, it will give them the time & space to remember what made you two become a couple in the first place.
STEP #2- BE A FRIEND AGAIN This is the 2nd key ingredient to getting your ex back.
Think back! Think back to the times that brought you two together to begin with.
What attracted you to each other? What did they like about you? What did you have in common? Be supportive, be a friend.
Don't be needy and keep it 100% positive.
Although your world feels like it is crashing in all around you, keep it positive? Go back to before you were actual lovers and just settle for being that friend again without all of the hidden agendas and pressure.
People do not respond to pressure in this day and age.
It will back fire on you.
Just be a supportive friend and don't ask for anything, this works for both men and women alike.
STEP #3- GET A LIFE AGAIN I hope this doesn't come across as too harsh but it is so true and important to understand.
In a recent poll performed by a Top dating site, do you know what the #1 attribute that people look for in another person is? Confidence! Yep, confidence! What was your life like before you were in a relationship? Chances are, you left your old life to start this new one with your ex, right? Well I ham here to tell you that if you have any chance of getting your ex back, you need to create a healthy new life.
Maybe a gym membership, or a yoga class, a new church or a new job, you get the idea.
It is going to feel un-natural at first because you miss them and want to spend all of your time with them, but they need time.
Give it to them, there is no telling how long it will take for them to "Realize" how much you mean to them, but they will.
Just be the coolest person around, keep it light, be a friend with no expectations, and you will be getting your ex back.
Patience is a virtue when it comes to relationships, that is the key on how to get an ex back.
From slowly withdrawing, detaching, easily angered, and mainly an unwillingness to spending quality time with each other, the signs are direct and very easy to read.
If not addressed quickly, the fate of the relationship is pretty clear, it is going to end! So how do I get back on the same page with my ex again? How do I get us back to where we were when we first met? How do I win back my ex? Well, I am here to help, here is my top 3 steps on how to get an ex back.
STEP #1- RESPECTIVELY BACK WAY OFF This is the hardest step towards getting your ex back for most people because you are unsure that if you give your partner their space that they actually might like it and never want you back,right? Well, that might happen, for now.
But if this move is played perfectly, they will soon have the space and time to actually miss you.
Men and women alike NEED SPACE, that is not necessarily a bad thing.
Give it to them! I cannot stress this enough.
If you play this hand right, given time, it will give them the time & space to remember what made you two become a couple in the first place.
STEP #2- BE A FRIEND AGAIN This is the 2nd key ingredient to getting your ex back.
Think back! Think back to the times that brought you two together to begin with.
What attracted you to each other? What did they like about you? What did you have in common? Be supportive, be a friend.
Don't be needy and keep it 100% positive.
Although your world feels like it is crashing in all around you, keep it positive? Go back to before you were actual lovers and just settle for being that friend again without all of the hidden agendas and pressure.
People do not respond to pressure in this day and age.
It will back fire on you.
Just be a supportive friend and don't ask for anything, this works for both men and women alike.
STEP #3- GET A LIFE AGAIN I hope this doesn't come across as too harsh but it is so true and important to understand.
In a recent poll performed by a Top dating site, do you know what the #1 attribute that people look for in another person is? Confidence! Yep, confidence! What was your life like before you were in a relationship? Chances are, you left your old life to start this new one with your ex, right? Well I ham here to tell you that if you have any chance of getting your ex back, you need to create a healthy new life.
Maybe a gym membership, or a yoga class, a new church or a new job, you get the idea.
It is going to feel un-natural at first because you miss them and want to spend all of your time with them, but they need time.
Give it to them, there is no telling how long it will take for them to "Realize" how much you mean to them, but they will.
Just be the coolest person around, keep it light, be a friend with no expectations, and you will be getting your ex back.
Patience is a virtue when it comes to relationships, that is the key on how to get an ex back.
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