You ex is talking about getting back together but if you have moved on that may just be the worst decision you can make.
If you have become self-confident and secure about who you are and your life is going in the direction that makes you happy then getting back together shouldn't even be a possibility right now.
Unless you are certain that your ex has changed what ever it was that went wrong and you really do still believe that you can build a great relationship, then you should just politely let your ex know that you just aren't interested in getting back together with them.
Take a look at what went wrong in your relationship in the first place.
Were you always angry and fighting?Did one or both of you feel the need to be with someone else at times?Unless for the most part you had a loving and good relationship and something simply went wrong that you both believe you can over come...
again I would say that getting back together just isn't something you should do right now.
Have you moved on? Are you seeing someone else and is that relationship in a good place but you still miss your ex once in a while.
I would think long and hard if you are with someone new and they are really the better partner for you.
It really is so easy to sometimes decide to get back with an ex simply because you feel more comfortable with them but in the long run, if things were always going wrong, you will regret the decision to dump your new partner to get back with an ex.
What about your ex?Are they seeing someone new but telling you that they are willing to get rid of them if only you will come back and try one more time?This right here is not a good thing because they are obviously using the other person and are leaving it up to you to give them a reason to get out of their new relationship.
Now if things go wrong after getting back together, it will be your fault for "making" them break up with the other person.
If you really are thinking about getting back together with an ex, you should take some of these tips into consideration and be sensible about your actions.
If you already know that it just isn't going to work then just move on and get over it.
I spent 9 years in an on again off again relationship that was at times fantastic but for the most part was really self-destructive.
I am only telling you this so you take a good hard look at what getting back together is going to really mean.
Spend your time doing what really makes you happy and after a while, you will realize that moving on and getting your life together for yourself and yourself only is going to be the best choice you have ever made.
If you have become self-confident and secure about who you are and your life is going in the direction that makes you happy then getting back together shouldn't even be a possibility right now.
Unless you are certain that your ex has changed what ever it was that went wrong and you really do still believe that you can build a great relationship, then you should just politely let your ex know that you just aren't interested in getting back together with them.
Take a look at what went wrong in your relationship in the first place.
Were you always angry and fighting?Did one or both of you feel the need to be with someone else at times?Unless for the most part you had a loving and good relationship and something simply went wrong that you both believe you can over come...
again I would say that getting back together just isn't something you should do right now.
Have you moved on? Are you seeing someone else and is that relationship in a good place but you still miss your ex once in a while.
I would think long and hard if you are with someone new and they are really the better partner for you.
It really is so easy to sometimes decide to get back with an ex simply because you feel more comfortable with them but in the long run, if things were always going wrong, you will regret the decision to dump your new partner to get back with an ex.
What about your ex?Are they seeing someone new but telling you that they are willing to get rid of them if only you will come back and try one more time?This right here is not a good thing because they are obviously using the other person and are leaving it up to you to give them a reason to get out of their new relationship.
Now if things go wrong after getting back together, it will be your fault for "making" them break up with the other person.
If you really are thinking about getting back together with an ex, you should take some of these tips into consideration and be sensible about your actions.
If you already know that it just isn't going to work then just move on and get over it.
I spent 9 years in an on again off again relationship that was at times fantastic but for the most part was really self-destructive.
I am only telling you this so you take a good hard look at what getting back together is going to really mean.
Spend your time doing what really makes you happy and after a while, you will realize that moving on and getting your life together for yourself and yourself only is going to be the best choice you have ever made.
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