When your boyfriend breaks up with you, it will make you desperate for his love. That will be exactly what he was expecting when he dumped you. For some reason it inflates a man's ego to have a woman cry and beg for his love. But, if you want him back, you have to deflate his ego and make your ex boyfriend desperate for your love.
After the breakup, you will sit around and hope that your ex boyfriend will call. If he does, you will be delighted and keep him on the phone as long as possible. You will think that it means he is trying to find a way of asking you to forgive him. What he is probably doing is keeping you on a string like a puppet.
He does not want to lose you because he wants to keep you as a backup girlfriend. This allows him to go out and date other women and if nothing works out for him, he knows you will be glad to take him back. Your ex will call you now and then just to keep your hopes up. By doing that he is the same as keeping you in a prison cell.
You won't want to move on and do any dating because you are afraid he would be angry. So you will sit around and wait. But if he finds someone else that interests him, you will be waiting forever. Being his backup girlfriend will never get your ex back. The only chance of having a future with the man you love is to make him desperate for your love.
To make him see that you will not play his game, you have to stop taking his calls and answering his emails. When he calls a few times and has to leave a message and you do not return his call, he will begin to wake up. Your ex boyfriend will see that his plan is not working out so well. Your next step to make him desperate for your love is to show him you are moving on.
Go out with your friends and have a good time. Be the life of the party and flirt with the guys. When you ex boyfriend hears of this, he will feel you slipping away. Feeling he may be losing you will make him realize that you are the only woman for him. Since men always want what they can't have, seeing that you might not want him anymore will make your ex boyfriend want you again as a full time girlfriend.
Continue to let his phone calls and emails go unanswered for a while longer, but don't make him discouraged. If you have ignored him for a couple of weeks, he will be desperate for your love. Call him and tell him it is time to have a talk. He will agree immediately and that will lead to becoming his full time girlfriend again.
After the breakup, you will sit around and hope that your ex boyfriend will call. If he does, you will be delighted and keep him on the phone as long as possible. You will think that it means he is trying to find a way of asking you to forgive him. What he is probably doing is keeping you on a string like a puppet.
He does not want to lose you because he wants to keep you as a backup girlfriend. This allows him to go out and date other women and if nothing works out for him, he knows you will be glad to take him back. Your ex will call you now and then just to keep your hopes up. By doing that he is the same as keeping you in a prison cell.
You won't want to move on and do any dating because you are afraid he would be angry. So you will sit around and wait. But if he finds someone else that interests him, you will be waiting forever. Being his backup girlfriend will never get your ex back. The only chance of having a future with the man you love is to make him desperate for your love.
To make him see that you will not play his game, you have to stop taking his calls and answering his emails. When he calls a few times and has to leave a message and you do not return his call, he will begin to wake up. Your ex boyfriend will see that his plan is not working out so well. Your next step to make him desperate for your love is to show him you are moving on.
Go out with your friends and have a good time. Be the life of the party and flirt with the guys. When you ex boyfriend hears of this, he will feel you slipping away. Feeling he may be losing you will make him realize that you are the only woman for him. Since men always want what they can't have, seeing that you might not want him anymore will make your ex boyfriend want you again as a full time girlfriend.
Continue to let his phone calls and emails go unanswered for a while longer, but don't make him discouraged. If you have ignored him for a couple of weeks, he will be desperate for your love. Call him and tell him it is time to have a talk. He will agree immediately and that will lead to becoming his full time girlfriend again.
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