Much has been said about life not being a bed of roses.
The truth ca never be better unearthed! You see, the threshold has not been set at the absolute; for if you cared to note, roses have got thorns that can get pretty prickly! The bottom-line, life out of utopia is full of ups and downs, and for everyone.
Expecting a flawless life is living a dangerous illusion.
Everyone have their smiling dawns and crying sun downs! This being one very fair aspect of life that even the rich cry! Problems rock our cruise in life when we least expect them, as they have done in the past and will do in the days to come! This is absolutely unavoidable; there is little we can do about it.
Perhaps no more than provide live vests where applicable! But this is as far as it goes, once the problems set in, we realize that our emergency doors cannot open! One of the best tests of a good and dependable life partnership (read marriage) is the way problems are solved at home.
With the full understanding that setbacks are part and parcel of life, it is beyond the height of stupidity to expect zero collisions with your spouse.
Some common misunderstandings like the sleeping position can tear down a marriage founded on love! How matters are handled determines their outcome.
The approach to a problem determines its solution or lack thereof for that matter.
Many couples will tell you how unattended tap almost broke up their marriage.
The modesty of acceptance or at least listening makes a difference between a well-knit family and a battlefield in the house.
The humility in an apology (even when not called for) can quell even the fiercest of fires in the relationship.
That said, the spirit of positive criticism, calm approach and non conditional forgiveness is the opposite pole that neutralizes the threat of problems swelling out of proportion and consuming much good and stable relationships.
The truth ca never be better unearthed! You see, the threshold has not been set at the absolute; for if you cared to note, roses have got thorns that can get pretty prickly! The bottom-line, life out of utopia is full of ups and downs, and for everyone.
Expecting a flawless life is living a dangerous illusion.
Everyone have their smiling dawns and crying sun downs! This being one very fair aspect of life that even the rich cry! Problems rock our cruise in life when we least expect them, as they have done in the past and will do in the days to come! This is absolutely unavoidable; there is little we can do about it.
Perhaps no more than provide live vests where applicable! But this is as far as it goes, once the problems set in, we realize that our emergency doors cannot open! One of the best tests of a good and dependable life partnership (read marriage) is the way problems are solved at home.
With the full understanding that setbacks are part and parcel of life, it is beyond the height of stupidity to expect zero collisions with your spouse.
Some common misunderstandings like the sleeping position can tear down a marriage founded on love! How matters are handled determines their outcome.
The approach to a problem determines its solution or lack thereof for that matter.
Many couples will tell you how unattended tap almost broke up their marriage.
The modesty of acceptance or at least listening makes a difference between a well-knit family and a battlefield in the house.
The humility in an apology (even when not called for) can quell even the fiercest of fires in the relationship.
That said, the spirit of positive criticism, calm approach and non conditional forgiveness is the opposite pole that neutralizes the threat of problems swelling out of proportion and consuming much good and stable relationships.
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