If you are trying to get your ex back there are certain things that you need to be aware of.
This is a tough time for the both of you so you need to be sure that you are doing all you can to make things right.
With that being said, remember that working at relationships is one of the toughest things you will ever have to do.
Pleading and ultimatums will not get your ex back to you any sooner.
Trying these tactics usually backfire and you will find yourself wondering what exactly happened.
Put yourself in the other person's shoes.
If you were given an ultimatum how would that make you feel? Would you want that person back even more? Sometimes stepping back and looking at things from the other side helps give us more clarity and helps us to do what we need to do to make things right.
Saying how sorry you are over and over loses its meaning after a while.
Sometimes all we can do is say sorry, but over time that loses meaning and the other person pretty much tunes you out.
Apologizing is good, only if you mean it and do something about it to make sure you do not make the same mistakes.
Don't become a broken record to your ex.
If you really want to make things better then do and say only the things that you mean.
And last of all please don't use manipulation.
Manipulating someone only goes to show that you really do not care about his or her emotions.
If you did you would not play with their emotions.
While this might work in some instances it usually only lasts for a short while until the person sees through it.
If you want to get your ex back then put yourself in their position and do your best to try to make things right again.