Breaking up is always a hard and emotionally investing time for both of the people who were a part of the relationship.
A common reaction is to try and seek revenge or plot evil things to do to your ex.
Another common reaction is to pester them and well, beg.
These common reactions 9 out of 10 times will never help you reconcile your relationship.
Begging and seeking revenge is always bad.
Why? If you want to ever get back with ex in the future, by pestering or trying to psychologically harm them, you're ruining your chances of getting back with them.
They'll see you as just an annoyance, and if you really do want to get back with them, it's going to be really hard.
The counterintuitive technique I'm going to show to you today may surprise you: it's called accepting the break up and moving on.
Now, I'm quite sure at the moment you seem confused.
You're probably asking right now, "Trent, why do I need to move on if I want to get back with them?" Or, "I thought accepting the break up is if you actually want to break up!" I'll tell you why: accepting and moving on helps your long term hopes with your ex.
Accepting the break up removes this barrier of tension you've built during the break up.
What does moving on mean? You have to signal to yourself and your ex that you don't want to fight and you just want to continue with life.
By doing this, you'll stop any childish arguing, especially if you see them regularly.
By signaling you're not going to cling on, this gives your ex space.
Now what is the power of space? Because you and your ex have new found space, you will both become calmer and will be able to heal.
This is the time where you'll both be able to reflect on your relationship: you will both experience regrets, but an attraction for each other will build up in the back of your minds.
Now that you've given your ex space, you'll be able to move on to your next step: making a move and getting back on a date with them!
A common reaction is to try and seek revenge or plot evil things to do to your ex.
Another common reaction is to pester them and well, beg.
These common reactions 9 out of 10 times will never help you reconcile your relationship.
Begging and seeking revenge is always bad.
Why? If you want to ever get back with ex in the future, by pestering or trying to psychologically harm them, you're ruining your chances of getting back with them.
They'll see you as just an annoyance, and if you really do want to get back with them, it's going to be really hard.
The counterintuitive technique I'm going to show to you today may surprise you: it's called accepting the break up and moving on.
Now, I'm quite sure at the moment you seem confused.
You're probably asking right now, "Trent, why do I need to move on if I want to get back with them?" Or, "I thought accepting the break up is if you actually want to break up!" I'll tell you why: accepting and moving on helps your long term hopes with your ex.
Accepting the break up removes this barrier of tension you've built during the break up.
What does moving on mean? You have to signal to yourself and your ex that you don't want to fight and you just want to continue with life.
By doing this, you'll stop any childish arguing, especially if you see them regularly.
By signaling you're not going to cling on, this gives your ex space.
Now what is the power of space? Because you and your ex have new found space, you will both become calmer and will be able to heal.
This is the time where you'll both be able to reflect on your relationship: you will both experience regrets, but an attraction for each other will build up in the back of your minds.
Now that you've given your ex space, you'll be able to move on to your next step: making a move and getting back on a date with them!
SHARE
