Ok guys, read this carefully.
There are many misconceptions out there about why women leave men, which lead men to do all the wrong things when they feel like a breakup is imminent.
These misconceptions are understandable.
After all, women are and always will be at least somewhat of an enigma to us.
So, what reasons have you heard in the past for why women leave men? Here's one-she wasn't "satisfied" with me.
She was just too high maintenance.
Nothing I ever did seemed to please her.
While this may be true with some women, like the Paris Hilton types that go from one guy to another looking for the highest bidder, most women aren't this way.
On the surface, it may seem like she is leaving you for a man who can give her more materially (or even physically), but most of the time there is something a lot deeper going on than that.
In most cases, the main reason why women leave men is that they don't feel appreciated.
In today's world, women are under a lot of stress.
They often have to balance work with cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids-generally doing all the household work.
This grueling schedule gets to them sometimes.
They need you to be there to "understand" them and express your appreciation for what they are doing.
Now let's be honest.
What is our usual reaction when she starts going on and on about all the stuff she does around the house? We usually tune it out and think about quickest and smoothest way to exit this conversation and get out the door to go hang out with the guys.
I know, we need a break too.
We work hard too.
The last thing we want to do when we get home from work is to listen to her talk about her problems.
But here's the thing.
If we fail to sacrifice some of our own comfort to listen to her, understand her, and tell her how much we appreciate it, someone else will.
Yeah, you know who I'm talking about.
These guys are out there, lurking in all the places that she frequents.
They're at work, at the grocery store, day care, etc.
These guys are the "players" that are out there just waiting to pounce.
They know all the right buttons to push, and they can sense when a woman is vulnerable and open to being played.
So, now that you know the main reason why women leave men, take action and make sure you make her feel appreciated! It really doesn't take that much, just some of your time and a willingness to "understand", not necessarily fix her problems.
Remember, if fail to take care of this, the "players" out there will be more than willing to step in and take your place.
There are many misconceptions out there about why women leave men, which lead men to do all the wrong things when they feel like a breakup is imminent.
These misconceptions are understandable.
After all, women are and always will be at least somewhat of an enigma to us.
So, what reasons have you heard in the past for why women leave men? Here's one-she wasn't "satisfied" with me.
She was just too high maintenance.
Nothing I ever did seemed to please her.
While this may be true with some women, like the Paris Hilton types that go from one guy to another looking for the highest bidder, most women aren't this way.
On the surface, it may seem like she is leaving you for a man who can give her more materially (or even physically), but most of the time there is something a lot deeper going on than that.
In most cases, the main reason why women leave men is that they don't feel appreciated.
In today's world, women are under a lot of stress.
They often have to balance work with cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids-generally doing all the household work.
This grueling schedule gets to them sometimes.
They need you to be there to "understand" them and express your appreciation for what they are doing.
Now let's be honest.
What is our usual reaction when she starts going on and on about all the stuff she does around the house? We usually tune it out and think about quickest and smoothest way to exit this conversation and get out the door to go hang out with the guys.
I know, we need a break too.
We work hard too.
The last thing we want to do when we get home from work is to listen to her talk about her problems.
But here's the thing.
If we fail to sacrifice some of our own comfort to listen to her, understand her, and tell her how much we appreciate it, someone else will.
Yeah, you know who I'm talking about.
These guys are out there, lurking in all the places that she frequents.
They're at work, at the grocery store, day care, etc.
These guys are the "players" that are out there just waiting to pounce.
They know all the right buttons to push, and they can sense when a woman is vulnerable and open to being played.
So, now that you know the main reason why women leave men, take action and make sure you make her feel appreciated! It really doesn't take that much, just some of your time and a willingness to "understand", not necessarily fix her problems.
Remember, if fail to take care of this, the "players" out there will be more than willing to step in and take your place.
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