When a breakup hit you in the face, you may panic and don't know what to do.
It is only human nature! However, the good news is that if you are willing to look over the breakup and reunite with your ex you can.
All you need is a set of proven psychological steps to follow.
Below are some of these steps that you can follow to have your ex come back to you.
Tip #1- After the breakup, you may be feeling the urge to call your ex and even ask him/her to take you back.
You should not! This is a mistake that a lot of persons make when their ex has call it quits on them.
It doesn't work and can actually make the situation worse.
Instead, you should go ahead and agree with your ex to take the break.
Tell your ex that you respect their decision and you also think that the break is the best thing to do.
Doing this will plant a doubt in your ex's mind and he/she will begin to have second thoughts.
Tip #2- Avoid all forms of communication with your ex.
Once you and your ex have made the break, you will need to give him/her some alone time.
In this time you can focus on your life and see where you can improve yourself.
You will also have the time to think about the relationship to see if you really need your ex.
Why do you want to get back with him/her? Is it because you love your ex? Or is it because you enjoyed having their company? Once you know the reason why you want the relationship to last, you will be in better position mentally to get your ex to come back to you.