Have you experienced a break up where your girlfriend left you for someone else? It does happen so don't feel like you are the only one dealing with this.
Maybe you are now trying to think about how you can get you're ex girlfriend back.
Being a guy, the stereotype says you must handle this situation with a bit of toughness.
Your emotions should not get in the way.
But in reality this is not always the truth.
Having that stereotype can be frustrating for a guy after breaking up with his girlfriend.
To make it worse is when your girlfriend broke up with you to be with another guy.
Having said that, here are some things that can help you get started fixing your situation.
The first thing for you to do is get your emotions under control.
As hard as it may be you have to do this if you want a chance of getting your ex back.
The emotions of jealousy, anger and sadness would be the ones you are most likely encountering.
But you also will be feeling grief, confusion over what is happening and a bit of guilt.
Wherever you stand, figure out what emotions you have to deal with so you can move on being able to think clearly.
Your next step is find out what happened that would make your ex leave you.
Why would she leave to be with someone else? Is this the first time she has done this? Did you do something to upset her, or is it something you did not do.
Be honest with yourself with this, you need to find what went wrong so you can fix it.
An important thing you must remember is not to do anything to the new boyfriend that is with your ex.
As angry as you may be with this guy you can only make your case worse if you get involved with him in any way.
Your ex may view you as being a jerk and avoid you in addition to whatever trouble you have with the guy himself.
Many times someone will date another person thinking they may be better than the one they are currently with or they are just feeling adventurous.
After they have been with this new person they may realize they had a better thing going with the other person and what to get back with them.
Basically what you need to do is let your ex girlfriend see the reality of the situation.
Be there for her if she contacts you and be able to calmly and with a mature attitude discuss your relationship and how you can fix it.
Maybe you are now trying to think about how you can get you're ex girlfriend back.
Being a guy, the stereotype says you must handle this situation with a bit of toughness.
Your emotions should not get in the way.
But in reality this is not always the truth.
Having that stereotype can be frustrating for a guy after breaking up with his girlfriend.
To make it worse is when your girlfriend broke up with you to be with another guy.
Having said that, here are some things that can help you get started fixing your situation.
The first thing for you to do is get your emotions under control.
As hard as it may be you have to do this if you want a chance of getting your ex back.
The emotions of jealousy, anger and sadness would be the ones you are most likely encountering.
But you also will be feeling grief, confusion over what is happening and a bit of guilt.
Wherever you stand, figure out what emotions you have to deal with so you can move on being able to think clearly.
Your next step is find out what happened that would make your ex leave you.
Why would she leave to be with someone else? Is this the first time she has done this? Did you do something to upset her, or is it something you did not do.
Be honest with yourself with this, you need to find what went wrong so you can fix it.
An important thing you must remember is not to do anything to the new boyfriend that is with your ex.
As angry as you may be with this guy you can only make your case worse if you get involved with him in any way.
Your ex may view you as being a jerk and avoid you in addition to whatever trouble you have with the guy himself.
Many times someone will date another person thinking they may be better than the one they are currently with or they are just feeling adventurous.
After they have been with this new person they may realize they had a better thing going with the other person and what to get back with them.
Basically what you need to do is let your ex girlfriend see the reality of the situation.
Be there for her if she contacts you and be able to calmly and with a mature attitude discuss your relationship and how you can fix it.
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