Sometimes in the heat of the moment of a break up we think we'd be better off without our boyfriends.
Once the anger has died down some women are left with a broken heart.
It's never easy to see your relationship end and if you are still crazy about your boyfriend it's even harder.
If you agreed to the break up initially you may be kicking yourself days or weeks later when you realize how much you really do love him.
If you find yourself in this position and you want to get your boyfriend to come back to you, you need to approach things in a very specific way.
Relationships are complex.
There are so many emotions involved and when a split happens both partners may be struggling with things in very different ways.
Women love to communicate and so their initial response is to call their ex up and tell him that they need to talk.
The man, on the other hand, typically needs time to think.
He wants to do that thinking by himself.
So the first thing you need to promise yourself when you want to get your boyfriend to come back is to give him time to sort out what he's feeling.
If you inundate him with calls or try to share your emotions through a letter or email he may not even really absorb it all.
He'll be stuck in an emotional place where his only real concern is his own feelings.
It's always a good idea to let some time pass before you contact him at all.
If something you did contributed to the downfall of your relationship now is the time to take responsibility for that.
If you and your boyfriend got into a heated argument and you refused to apologize or you felt you did nothing wrong, you need to start looking at that a different way.
When you say sorry for something you did it shows that you have remorse.
You have to compromise when you are in a relationship.
You also have to compromise if you want to get your boyfriend to come back.
If you know that something you did hurt or angered him, tell him you regret it and you are sorry for the way it made him feel.
This will go a long way towards getting back together with him.
Once the anger has died down some women are left with a broken heart.
It's never easy to see your relationship end and if you are still crazy about your boyfriend it's even harder.
If you agreed to the break up initially you may be kicking yourself days or weeks later when you realize how much you really do love him.
If you find yourself in this position and you want to get your boyfriend to come back to you, you need to approach things in a very specific way.
Relationships are complex.
There are so many emotions involved and when a split happens both partners may be struggling with things in very different ways.
Women love to communicate and so their initial response is to call their ex up and tell him that they need to talk.
The man, on the other hand, typically needs time to think.
He wants to do that thinking by himself.
So the first thing you need to promise yourself when you want to get your boyfriend to come back is to give him time to sort out what he's feeling.
If you inundate him with calls or try to share your emotions through a letter or email he may not even really absorb it all.
He'll be stuck in an emotional place where his only real concern is his own feelings.
It's always a good idea to let some time pass before you contact him at all.
If something you did contributed to the downfall of your relationship now is the time to take responsibility for that.
If you and your boyfriend got into a heated argument and you refused to apologize or you felt you did nothing wrong, you need to start looking at that a different way.
When you say sorry for something you did it shows that you have remorse.
You have to compromise when you are in a relationship.
You also have to compromise if you want to get your boyfriend to come back.
If you know that something you did hurt or angered him, tell him you regret it and you are sorry for the way it made him feel.
This will go a long way towards getting back together with him.
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