Relationships are not always easy to figure out.
Even if you are the one that broke up with the other, you may still find a wide array of obstacles in the way of your happiness.
You may say that you regret the break up and that love is still there, but sometimes, this is simply not enough.
Before trying to push matters further and demand the other to give your relationship a second chance, take a moment and think if getting back with an ex is really what you need in your life right now.
The Good and the Bad We do not advice to hurry up and throw your relationship off the window.
But you do need to think about the good and the bad that went on between you and your ex before the break up.
A hasty break up, only after a few months of being together, is usually a sign that the two persons involved are not compatible on many levels.
If, on the other hand, you and your ex had been together for a long time, you may have some pretty good reasons to want to repair things.
What About the Reasons? Even the best relationships can sometimes trip on an issue without solution in sight.
If you want to get back with your ex, you need to discuss matters seriously, and discover the true reasons that led to your break up in the first place.
Is it something that you feel you cannot change? For sure, your ex will want you to submit to some commitments to change, but if you are not sure you can cope with the new situation, we strongly advise you to refrain from doing it.
Old problems will resurface and another break up will appear on the horizon.
Still Single or Not? It is very important that you consider the other person, too, before making any moves.
If your ex found another person and they are not involved in another relationship, maybe there is nothing you can do.
Getting back with an ex, no matter how you see it, becomes more difficult when the ex discovered another person to share their life with.