Post breakup it is understandable that you don't know what to do next.
You don't know where to begin and how to put the pieces back together so that you have some semblance of a normal life.
Here are 7 things that you must do right now before you lose your sanity.
Make a list of your priorities You have moved out or your partner has, you need to reorganize everything that was there earlier.
The first step that you have to do is make a list of where your priorities lie and what needs your immediate attention.
Take the help of a close friend or a family member if you feel desolate.
Take the breakup in your stride Think of it this way.
It is only a breakup and no one has died.
There will be enough chances to makeup later on.
Breakups happen all the time and you are not the only one to go through this.
Give yourself a break Now that the inevitable has happened it is time you gave some time for yourself.
Going on a well deserved break or a vacation is not a bad idea.
Maybe you will meet someone interesting there.
Avoid being alone If the breakup was nasty and you need support then it is a better idea to move in with someone with whom you have a good personal equation.
It could be anyone from a friend to a family member.
This will take your mind off your ex and you will get some peace of mind.
If this is not possible then get yourself a pet.
Empty your feelings and frustrations Give way to your feelings of hurt and anger that has been bottled up for all these years.
Once you do this, you will feel lighter and maybe appreciate your ex's decision better.
Never carry the burden of guilt with you as it will mar your future relationships.
Give your ex and yourself some time You need to give yourself and your ex a sufficient time window during which you can attempt a reconciliation.
Be reasonable in your expectations and don't expect miracles.
They happen only in fairy tales.
If you are lucky you will be reunited if not, life still goes on.
Begin the process of moving on If nothing materializes from all your efforts then you need to convince yourself that maybe a breakup was the only logical end to the relationship with your ex.
There are plenty of lonely people out there who will want to be with you and cherish you.
You don't know where to begin and how to put the pieces back together so that you have some semblance of a normal life.
Here are 7 things that you must do right now before you lose your sanity.
Make a list of your priorities You have moved out or your partner has, you need to reorganize everything that was there earlier.
The first step that you have to do is make a list of where your priorities lie and what needs your immediate attention.
Take the help of a close friend or a family member if you feel desolate.
Take the breakup in your stride Think of it this way.
It is only a breakup and no one has died.
There will be enough chances to makeup later on.
Breakups happen all the time and you are not the only one to go through this.
Give yourself a break Now that the inevitable has happened it is time you gave some time for yourself.
Going on a well deserved break or a vacation is not a bad idea.
Maybe you will meet someone interesting there.
Avoid being alone If the breakup was nasty and you need support then it is a better idea to move in with someone with whom you have a good personal equation.
It could be anyone from a friend to a family member.
This will take your mind off your ex and you will get some peace of mind.
If this is not possible then get yourself a pet.
Empty your feelings and frustrations Give way to your feelings of hurt and anger that has been bottled up for all these years.
Once you do this, you will feel lighter and maybe appreciate your ex's decision better.
Never carry the burden of guilt with you as it will mar your future relationships.
Give your ex and yourself some time You need to give yourself and your ex a sufficient time window during which you can attempt a reconciliation.
Be reasonable in your expectations and don't expect miracles.
They happen only in fairy tales.
If you are lucky you will be reunited if not, life still goes on.
Begin the process of moving on If nothing materializes from all your efforts then you need to convince yourself that maybe a breakup was the only logical end to the relationship with your ex.
There are plenty of lonely people out there who will want to be with you and cherish you.
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