You desperately want to make up with your ex but you don't know how.
You've been separated for a long time now.
You don't communicate with each other anymore.
You don't talk, see or even email each other anymore.
The relationship is to far gone to be saved.
Your ex does not even answer the phone anymore when you call.
It's over, finished, stick a fork in it done.
Or is it? Hold on there 'unlucky in love'.
Not so fast.
All is not lost.
At least not yet.
Did you know that most relationships, no matter how badly scarred and damaged, can be salvaged.
And they can be made to survive and thrive.
A strategy for winning back an ex lover does exist.
A relatively unknown recipe for keeping an ex lovers interest and desire does exist.
But you will have to pull some psychological triggers.
You have to have a comprehensive strategy to make this work for you.
The first thing you need to do is step back and chill out.
Get your act and your life together.
Make new friends, get out more, go to new places and start doing new things.
This is not the end of the world.
It's the beginning of your new life.
A life where you are in control.
Start going to the gym, take a new class or start a new project, something that interest you.
Something that will give you a new interest and cultivate a new perspective.
Something that will keep your interest and spirits high and make you forget about your ex.
You are a worthy, independent and highly desirable human being.
A lover would be lucky to have such a wonderful personality as yourself.
Believe this, because it is true.
And when you exert such confidence and "savoir faire" others will start to take notice.
You become the "hot" one that others desire.
When you get to this stage, if you still want you ex back, here is the strategy to undertake.
Write a hand-written letter (not typed and not emailed) to your ex lover.
One of the greatest copywriters of all time, Gary Halbert, discovered that a hand-written envelope, with a live.
first class stamp and no return address, gets opened more than any other correspondence.
People want to know who wrote them a hand written letter and will open it almost every single time out of curiosity.
The next thing you do is very counter-intuitive to what you feel inside.
Although you still want to get back together, what you say instead is that you agree with them about the breakup.
It has opened your eyes to all the wonderment that life has to offer.
You enjoyed the time spent together and you wish them well.
I'll say it again, this is very counter-intuitive.
But there are a myriad of reasons why this works.
The main reason is that it is human nature for people to want what they can't have.
By agreeing with your ex about the breakup, you are no longer available to them.
No more sex.
Believe it or not, this makes you much more attractive to them.
Make sure you sound as if you truly do not care what happens to your relationship.
Not because you don't care about them, but because you know you will be just fine.
You are no longer the needy, clingy heart broken ex, a door mat to be stepped on.
You have moved on to bigger and better things.
You are going out with other people and enjoying a great life.
You are independent, autonomous and the prize that others desire.
When you make this subtle mind shift, you will pique their interest.
This is your opening salvo in learning How to Make Up With Your Ex.