In today's digital age cell phones are a part of our everyday life.
They help us with so much and make life easier than years before with things such as surfing the web or finding directions.
However an unfortunate and increasing trend is the use of text messaging to replace normal communication such as talking.
One such misuse of text messaging is to use it to end a relationship or to breakup with someone.
This sort of cowardly way of breaking the news to someone is not only wrong, but demonstrates a lack of common respect for the person receiving it.
If you are on the wrong end of receiving one of these cowardly texts there are a few things you can do.
1.
Laugh - You can' help but laugh at it.
The fact that someone was such a coward that they choose to send you a digital messaging to end your relationship speaks volumes of the type of person they are.
Sure, there is no denying that the pain is real.
After all someone you wanted to be with no longer wants to be with you.
However, if you really think about it why would you want to be with someone who doesn't even have the character or the spine to at least face you to say goodbye.
2.
Don't respond - If you've already responded, that's fine.
Stop all future text communication from this point on.
Text is impersonal and is unable to convey emotions - good or bad.
Do not continue to engage in a text message conversation with someone who chooses to use it for important conversations.
Obviously the lack social skills and are not worthy of your time.
If you feel that you have to respond, you can send them something back that is equally as heartless and without emotion that conveys you agree with their choice.
Sure, you may not agree with their choice, but text certainly is no place to have that conversation.
I would suggest replying with a variance of the following that is tailored to your situation - "I have thought about your text.
Although it would have been nice to have this conversation in person, I agree it's best for us both to go our separate ways.
That's it, nothing more.
No need to say nice things or even to say goodbye.
Your emotions will not transpire on the other end, so there is no reason to try.
3.
Focus on your breakup recovery - Following the brief text message all other break up recovery principles applies.
You should immediately start seeking answers and help to help you cope with this separation.
Although the text was a lame way of ending a relationship, the pains will still be the same.
They help us with so much and make life easier than years before with things such as surfing the web or finding directions.
However an unfortunate and increasing trend is the use of text messaging to replace normal communication such as talking.
One such misuse of text messaging is to use it to end a relationship or to breakup with someone.
This sort of cowardly way of breaking the news to someone is not only wrong, but demonstrates a lack of common respect for the person receiving it.
If you are on the wrong end of receiving one of these cowardly texts there are a few things you can do.
1.
Laugh - You can' help but laugh at it.
The fact that someone was such a coward that they choose to send you a digital messaging to end your relationship speaks volumes of the type of person they are.
Sure, there is no denying that the pain is real.
After all someone you wanted to be with no longer wants to be with you.
However, if you really think about it why would you want to be with someone who doesn't even have the character or the spine to at least face you to say goodbye.
2.
Don't respond - If you've already responded, that's fine.
Stop all future text communication from this point on.
Text is impersonal and is unable to convey emotions - good or bad.
Do not continue to engage in a text message conversation with someone who chooses to use it for important conversations.
Obviously the lack social skills and are not worthy of your time.
If you feel that you have to respond, you can send them something back that is equally as heartless and without emotion that conveys you agree with their choice.
Sure, you may not agree with their choice, but text certainly is no place to have that conversation.
I would suggest replying with a variance of the following that is tailored to your situation - "I have thought about your text.
Although it would have been nice to have this conversation in person, I agree it's best for us both to go our separate ways.
That's it, nothing more.
No need to say nice things or even to say goodbye.
Your emotions will not transpire on the other end, so there is no reason to try.
3.
Focus on your breakup recovery - Following the brief text message all other break up recovery principles applies.
You should immediately start seeking answers and help to help you cope with this separation.
Although the text was a lame way of ending a relationship, the pains will still be the same.
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