Having the man you expected to spend your future with tell you he needs space can make your whole world fall apart. You are deeply in love with him and thought he loved you to. Now you are torn apart and do not know what to do. This is when you need to be very careful because the future of your relationship could be decided by the action you take.
Following your instincts and chasing your ex boyfriend will only lessen your chances of getting him back. That is what most women do in your situation, but letting him see you crying and begging will lower his respect for you. You must hold down you feeling of panic and respect his wishes. Give him the space he desires and let him go for now and it will pay huge dividends later.
Something caused him to be dissatisfied with the relationship. It could have been something you said or did to hurt his feeling or it could be his imagination. Your ex might have felt he was being smothered or unappreciated. There are any number of things that can make a man say he needs space, but when he does, he wants to be left alone.
So give him more space than he asked for by completely ignoring him and showing him he is not the center of your life Reconnect with your family and be seen going out with friends for a good time. Take up other activities, such as helping those less fortunate by doing volunteer work. Take some night classes to improve your job skills. This will make you a stronger and more self reliant person.
You can make this a very important time in your life. Think of yourself and your own needs instead of being obsessed with thoughts of your ex boyfriend. You have a life to lead, with or without your ex. The better you prepare yourself to live it without him the more he will be attracted to you. Knowing that you are prepared to face the future without him will make him want you all the more. Men respect strong and self sufficient women and are drawn to them instinctively.
Show him that you can accept the breakup and that you do not really care. By doing that, you are not acting the way he expected and that will get his attention. If you refuse to chase and beg him, he will begin to feel rejection and as if you are dumping him. Men do not handle rejection or being dumped very well. They feel challenged and that makes them react by chasing the one that has rejected them. In this case that will be you.
Following your instincts and chasing your ex boyfriend will only lessen your chances of getting him back. That is what most women do in your situation, but letting him see you crying and begging will lower his respect for you. You must hold down you feeling of panic and respect his wishes. Give him the space he desires and let him go for now and it will pay huge dividends later.
Something caused him to be dissatisfied with the relationship. It could have been something you said or did to hurt his feeling or it could be his imagination. Your ex might have felt he was being smothered or unappreciated. There are any number of things that can make a man say he needs space, but when he does, he wants to be left alone.
So give him more space than he asked for by completely ignoring him and showing him he is not the center of your life Reconnect with your family and be seen going out with friends for a good time. Take up other activities, such as helping those less fortunate by doing volunteer work. Take some night classes to improve your job skills. This will make you a stronger and more self reliant person.
You can make this a very important time in your life. Think of yourself and your own needs instead of being obsessed with thoughts of your ex boyfriend. You have a life to lead, with or without your ex. The better you prepare yourself to live it without him the more he will be attracted to you. Knowing that you are prepared to face the future without him will make him want you all the more. Men respect strong and self sufficient women and are drawn to them instinctively.
Show him that you can accept the breakup and that you do not really care. By doing that, you are not acting the way he expected and that will get his attention. If you refuse to chase and beg him, he will begin to feel rejection and as if you are dumping him. Men do not handle rejection or being dumped very well. They feel challenged and that makes them react by chasing the one that has rejected them. In this case that will be you.
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