Girls are generally the most vulnerable parties during a breakup.
You find it hard to face the truth that your boyfriend dumped you for another girl or simply because he does not want to be with you anymore.
The World Wide Web imparts a lot of ways to get your ex back.
Most advices take a lot of effort and time for you to bring back that spark you once had in your relationship.
In order to get past that ordeal, we have come up with three easy ways that are guaranteed to make you say, "I will get my ex back!" 1.
Be as Sweet as a Cherry Pie No.
Not to him.
Be sweet to yourself and the people around you.
When we just went through a breakup, we tend to be bitter.
We badmouth our former boyfriends because we feel bad and hurt for what happened.
Yes, it's hard not to think about it.
But ask yourself, "Will I get my ex back by showing him that I'm still affected by what happened?" The answer is a resounding "No.
" Nobody likes to carry a truckload of spite and resentment with them, moreover, if that bad aura is coming from their girlfriend.
Show him that you're doing fine without him.
It's reverse psychology.
Let him realize that you took things lightly.
2.
Let Bygones be Bygones Forgive and forget, as simple as that.
Yes, he hurt you, but didn't you hurt him too? Remember that classic cliché "It takes two to tango?" You have to realize that there are two separate poles to every existing problem.
You have to stop delineating the two and start taking them as a whole.
Once you've successfully gotten through step 1, make sure you don't forget to remember him as a friend.
You can casually say hi if you ran across him on the street or by the hallways of your school.
Do not indulge right away to conversations; instead try to keep your time for talk at a minimum.
This is a prerequisite in order to successfully immerse your tactic to step 3.
3.
"Move On" "Wait, I thought I was supposed to get my ex back," would be an obvious reply to this last step.
The subject line is put in quotation to create a mission of honest deceit.
You might be confused about what that means, but simply, it is showing your ex boyfriend that you are finding it easy to move on without him in your life.
Statistics show that a surmountable percentage of men get vulnerable once their ego is crushed.
Men always have that preconceived notion that they are the first ones to naturally move on in a relationship.
Brushing that idea off is nonchalantly telling them that you got there first and eventually when he moves on as well, it doesn't make a difference any longer.
More often than not, this would trigger men to reassess themselves and turn back to you.
This will, in due course, open doors for you to sit down and talk about what happened.
Once that moment comes, make sure you are prepared to let yourself be heard.
That moment will be your chance to finally win him back.
You find it hard to face the truth that your boyfriend dumped you for another girl or simply because he does not want to be with you anymore.
The World Wide Web imparts a lot of ways to get your ex back.
Most advices take a lot of effort and time for you to bring back that spark you once had in your relationship.
In order to get past that ordeal, we have come up with three easy ways that are guaranteed to make you say, "I will get my ex back!" 1.
Be as Sweet as a Cherry Pie No.
Not to him.
Be sweet to yourself and the people around you.
When we just went through a breakup, we tend to be bitter.
We badmouth our former boyfriends because we feel bad and hurt for what happened.
Yes, it's hard not to think about it.
But ask yourself, "Will I get my ex back by showing him that I'm still affected by what happened?" The answer is a resounding "No.
" Nobody likes to carry a truckload of spite and resentment with them, moreover, if that bad aura is coming from their girlfriend.
Show him that you're doing fine without him.
It's reverse psychology.
Let him realize that you took things lightly.
2.
Let Bygones be Bygones Forgive and forget, as simple as that.
Yes, he hurt you, but didn't you hurt him too? Remember that classic cliché "It takes two to tango?" You have to realize that there are two separate poles to every existing problem.
You have to stop delineating the two and start taking them as a whole.
Once you've successfully gotten through step 1, make sure you don't forget to remember him as a friend.
You can casually say hi if you ran across him on the street or by the hallways of your school.
Do not indulge right away to conversations; instead try to keep your time for talk at a minimum.
This is a prerequisite in order to successfully immerse your tactic to step 3.
3.
"Move On" "Wait, I thought I was supposed to get my ex back," would be an obvious reply to this last step.
The subject line is put in quotation to create a mission of honest deceit.
You might be confused about what that means, but simply, it is showing your ex boyfriend that you are finding it easy to move on without him in your life.
Statistics show that a surmountable percentage of men get vulnerable once their ego is crushed.
Men always have that preconceived notion that they are the first ones to naturally move on in a relationship.
Brushing that idea off is nonchalantly telling them that you got there first and eventually when he moves on as well, it doesn't make a difference any longer.
More often than not, this would trigger men to reassess themselves and turn back to you.
This will, in due course, open doors for you to sit down and talk about what happened.
Once that moment comes, make sure you are prepared to let yourself be heard.
That moment will be your chance to finally win him back.
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