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Should I Be Getting Over a Relationship Or Trying to Get Back Together?

There are times a person goes through a breakup with his or her partner and wonders if the breakup is meant to be forever or if there's a chance of getting back together with the ex-partner.
This is true because many times breakups happen prematurely and separation doesn't always end one person's love for another.
Relationships end with a breakup, but not all breakups end relationship.
It is important to remember this because while a breakup will many times end a relationship forever, they don't always.
So, the problem is, was this a relationship worth pursuing again? How Do I Know If It Is Over Forever? If you have just broken up with someone you love you would certainly be feeling sad and you would be unable to concentrate on normal daily tasks.
In short, you would be wishing the whole episode never came about.
If this is the case, there is one thing you should know.
That is, it is often the other partner you just broken up with may be going through life feeling the same way you are.
If you have just broken up with someone and you now have regrets, it may be worth finding out if the ex-partner also has regrets.
The difficult thing is, you must contact him or her to find out if he or she really does have regrets as well.
Trying to Make Contact This most difficult task of trying to find out if your ex partner is interested in getting back together can only be done properly by contacting this person yourself.
Trying to send a mutual friend to ask your ex-partner how he or she feels about getting back together would be the worst thing you could do.
Don't bother sending a message through a third party.
Try using the phone to re-initiate contact with your ex-partner.
Whether your ex answers or you get a recorded message, simply state you're very upset over what has happened.
Also say to you feel lost without him or her and you wonder if he or she would like to try to patch up the relationship.
Is the Breakup Real or Not? After making such contact with the ex-partner, one of two things will happen.
He or she will literally melt and be very open to getting back together or there is something making him or her incompatible with you.
If the latter happens, you'll find in the long run the permanent breakup was the better way to go.
If you find contacting your ex results in re-igniting the relationship, you'll probably see this relationship will get even stronger.
Maybe you'll find that the two of you will end up spending the rest of your lives together.
However, often a person will have a few breakups before the right partner is found.
So, if contacting the person you just broke up with bears no fruit, you'll know it is time to go on looking for the partner who will be compatible with you forever.
In some cases, a breakup is a way for two people to realize they just can't live without one another.
On the next go around this couple may find they are truly in love and will never make the mistake of breaking up again.
However, if both the ex-partners are too shy to try to contact the other one, they will never know if their one true love has gone to waste.
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