Showing Neediness most times can be a guy's worst enemy in a relationship. Acting needy and clingy can make a girl get turned off really immediately all the time. Guys who always show neediness to their girlfriends too frequently are often taken for granted by their girlfriends. Guys who act needy are weak guys and women know it. Do you call her a hundred times a day? Telling her that you miss her so much and you can't live another minute without hearing her voice. Furthermore you let her have her way even when she's wrong just because you want her to stay around you and you don't want to lose her. When you find yourself in such situations, you are exhibiting tell-tale signs of neediness. Surely if you want the best out of your relationships guys, you have got to stop acting like any of the examples I have given above. Your girlfriend won't value you if you keep on that way.
I have seen lot's of people and friends who I've watched act needy to their girlfriends, they do this over and over again. Surprisingly, you be sure not very long they all got dumped eventually. Then I had a specific friend who does this almost all the time. He does it all the time, morning afternoon, evening. As a matter of fact, he calls nothing less than six times a day. He got the wrong idea thinking it would make her love him more. We all would be out on guys' night out and he would call her up to 3 or 4 times during the night out, that's within 3 hours. He usually says "honey I miss you so much and I love you so- thinking it will make her fall for him more. He did it over and over again. Well, as a good friend I remember telling him repeatedly that he doesn't have to do this.
Girls feel differently when a guy is emotionally dependent on them. Guys feel proud when a girl can't do without them. And when ever I adviced my friend on that, he would reply me by saying: "I'm not just caring enough. My girlfriend thinks it is cute". But I knew Mike was going to wear her out with his incessant calls and emotional dependence. Mike got it wrong, but he was so blind with his love for his girlfriend that he could not accept a helpful advice from a friend. Next, his girlfriend became his ex girlfriend. Of course she dumped Mike in less than 2 months. I knew this lady well and she later told me was done with Mike. When I asked why she left him? She answered and said Mike wasn't man enough for her. Friends, what she meant by those words isn't far from the fact that Mike was acting totally emotionally dependent on her. Now she's out to get a real stronger man. Men are mean't to be strong. When we act soft, girls begin to feel irritated by such emotional feelings clingy guy like him. Goodluck.
I have seen lot's of people and friends who I've watched act needy to their girlfriends, they do this over and over again. Surprisingly, you be sure not very long they all got dumped eventually. Then I had a specific friend who does this almost all the time. He does it all the time, morning afternoon, evening. As a matter of fact, he calls nothing less than six times a day. He got the wrong idea thinking it would make her love him more. We all would be out on guys' night out and he would call her up to 3 or 4 times during the night out, that's within 3 hours. He usually says "honey I miss you so much and I love you so- thinking it will make her fall for him more. He did it over and over again. Well, as a good friend I remember telling him repeatedly that he doesn't have to do this.
Girls feel differently when a guy is emotionally dependent on them. Guys feel proud when a girl can't do without them. And when ever I adviced my friend on that, he would reply me by saying: "I'm not just caring enough. My girlfriend thinks it is cute". But I knew Mike was going to wear her out with his incessant calls and emotional dependence. Mike got it wrong, but he was so blind with his love for his girlfriend that he could not accept a helpful advice from a friend. Next, his girlfriend became his ex girlfriend. Of course she dumped Mike in less than 2 months. I knew this lady well and she later told me was done with Mike. When I asked why she left him? She answered and said Mike wasn't man enough for her. Friends, what she meant by those words isn't far from the fact that Mike was acting totally emotionally dependent on her. Now she's out to get a real stronger man. Men are mean't to be strong. When we act soft, girls begin to feel irritated by such emotional feelings clingy guy like him. Goodluck.
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