After you and your ex split up, you probably felt like getting back together with her was the last thing you would ever do.
Once the pain and anger has gone however, you may feel differently.
You might not even remember whose idea the breakup was in the first place by this time.
Maybe it was hers, yours, or a mutual decision.
What you do know is that you now want her back, but you don't know how to do it.
The tips below will boost your chances, and tell you all you need to know about what to do and what not to do to get your ex back.
TIP #1: Never be a pushover.
No matter if one of your relationship issues was the fact that you were too domineering, no woman wants a man that can't and won't stand up to her.
She also will not run back to you if you threaten to do things like jump off a 10-story building.
TIP #2: Don't try to buy her back.
Gifts, candy, and flowers will not send her rushing back into your arms.
If the attraction she felt for you is now gone, she will have to get that back before ever coming back into the relationship.
So, you could buy her any type of gift and it still won't change how she sees you and feels about you.
TIP #3: Do find the things she found attractive about you.
What she first found attractive about you at the start of your relationship, might actually be irritating to her now.
The fact is that people do change, so you need to search for and do things she reacted positively to.
Even if it seems insignificant to you, it may impress her, and chemistry is crucial to any relationship.
TIP #4: Don't ever use jealousy.
Jealousy is the worst way to try and win her back.
Taking another woman out in front of mutual friends will not make her want to come back.
It may even push her away and make her think you never cared about her at all.
TIP #5: Don't stalk her.
Calling her, text messaging her, writing her, and chasing after her constantly will send her running away from you and not back to you.
She has to decide to come back to you on her own.
Harassing or stalking her will scare her away.
TIP #6: Don't refuse professional help.
Most men naturally balk against counseling, as they don't like the idea of someone else fixing their problems.
Be ready and willing to go to counseling, if you really want to get your ex back.
Counseling will show you things in a whole new light and can be extremely helpful.
TIP #7: Do apologize if you are at fault for the breakup.
A sincere apology will go farther than anything else, and those two small words mean big things.
Explain the reason you are apologizing, how you are aware that you hurt her, and that you won't ever hurt her again.
Getting your ex back might happen easily or you just might have to accept that the breakup is best for both of you.
This will depend on a lot of different factors.
A considerate manner has much more chance of having an optimistic result than a reckless manner will.
Once the pain and anger has gone however, you may feel differently.
You might not even remember whose idea the breakup was in the first place by this time.
Maybe it was hers, yours, or a mutual decision.
What you do know is that you now want her back, but you don't know how to do it.
The tips below will boost your chances, and tell you all you need to know about what to do and what not to do to get your ex back.
TIP #1: Never be a pushover.
No matter if one of your relationship issues was the fact that you were too domineering, no woman wants a man that can't and won't stand up to her.
She also will not run back to you if you threaten to do things like jump off a 10-story building.
TIP #2: Don't try to buy her back.
Gifts, candy, and flowers will not send her rushing back into your arms.
If the attraction she felt for you is now gone, she will have to get that back before ever coming back into the relationship.
So, you could buy her any type of gift and it still won't change how she sees you and feels about you.
TIP #3: Do find the things she found attractive about you.
What she first found attractive about you at the start of your relationship, might actually be irritating to her now.
The fact is that people do change, so you need to search for and do things she reacted positively to.
Even if it seems insignificant to you, it may impress her, and chemistry is crucial to any relationship.
TIP #4: Don't ever use jealousy.
Jealousy is the worst way to try and win her back.
Taking another woman out in front of mutual friends will not make her want to come back.
It may even push her away and make her think you never cared about her at all.
TIP #5: Don't stalk her.
Calling her, text messaging her, writing her, and chasing after her constantly will send her running away from you and not back to you.
She has to decide to come back to you on her own.
Harassing or stalking her will scare her away.
TIP #6: Don't refuse professional help.
Most men naturally balk against counseling, as they don't like the idea of someone else fixing their problems.
Be ready and willing to go to counseling, if you really want to get your ex back.
Counseling will show you things in a whole new light and can be extremely helpful.
TIP #7: Do apologize if you are at fault for the breakup.
A sincere apology will go farther than anything else, and those two small words mean big things.
Explain the reason you are apologizing, how you are aware that you hurt her, and that you won't ever hurt her again.
Getting your ex back might happen easily or you just might have to accept that the breakup is best for both of you.
This will depend on a lot of different factors.
A considerate manner has much more chance of having an optimistic result than a reckless manner will.
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