Does your life feel empty and there is an ache in your heart because your boyfriend left you? Maybe you need to start doing something about it.
Here are some techniques and tips you can use to get your boyfriend back into your life.
There may have been many reasons why you and your ex boyfriend broke up.
It can be hard to take back harsh and spiteful things that were said in an argument, but these things need to be forgiven and forgotten in order to have a future relationship.
Use this time apart to figure out what the real reasons were that you broke up, because in order to fix something you have to know how it got broken.
In some cases maybe there was another woman.
If this is the case you will need to think about why he would want another woman.
Had your attraction for him stopped? Maybe your personality or even your looks had begun to change.
Perhaps the romance had gotten stale in your relationship and you had gotten into a comfortable rut.
All of the above reasons can be changed and corrected.
This is not to say that the breakup was all your fault.
Usually both partners have said and done things to harm the relationship.
But if you feel some of the fault was yours, this can be fixed.
You have to realize that you can't change him, he will have to do that.
However, you can change yourself if you really want him back.
Do you look the same as you did when you were dating? Is your hair the same color? Do you still weigh the same? Do you still wear attractive clothes? Are you the same person he fell in love with? Remember when both of you wanted to spend every minute together? Those memories need to be brought back to give you the best chance to get your boyfriend back.
After you have achieved the look that he fell in love with, start getting out again, maybe even dating.
This will also help you to rebuild your self-esteem and keep you from sitting home sad and brooding.
Even though dating may be the last thing you want to do, it is an age old fact that men want what they cannot have.
If he sees you are going on with your life just fine without him he may begin to reconsider the breakup.
Ego is very important to a man and he will want to prove that you are still attracted to him.
Seeing the person he had fallen in love with may also bring back good memories of better times.
Whenever you run into him, and you probably will, be casual and friendly.
You can subtly let him know that there are no hard feelings and that you are willing to let bygones be bygones.
Even a little spark that may have been left over from the relationship could ignite into the love you used to have together.
If he was attracted to you before, there is no reason he wouldn't be attracted to you now.
Still, not all breakups can be healed.
If this is the case, you will know that you tried.
Sometimes you just have to move on.
At least you will have your self-respect and can start a new life with no shadows hanging over you.