Isn't it a nerve-wracking experience when what seemed to be a wonderful relationship suddenly turned sour? You're left confused, trying to understand what went wrong.
He used to be so excited to get into a relationship with you, only to suddenly change and tell you that he is unsure about the future and about having a family.
You frequently argue, which makes things worse.
Sad to say but when you encounter these kinds of problems, it's likely that your relationship is headed towards a breakup.
You may find this hard to believe, but breakups happen the moment after the woman tries to solve the problems.
Have you had that kind of experience before? Are you still asking yourself how things went wrong when all you did was try to make things right? Unfortunately, relationships almost never work by using the scientific method.
In a relationship you don't go identifying the problem then suggesting a solution, carrying out the solution and then see how things go.
Here's an example: Men have grown to believe that women are convinced easily, and can be seduced by the usual pick-up lines that they use.
Admittedly there are men who still use these pick-up lines but when they strike out the first time, they just think that they probably used the wrong pick-up line.
So they try to use a different pick-up line and see how things go.
Of course you know how these kinds of men fare in the dating game.
Same is true with women who tend to try to solve everything bad in their relationship.
Instinctively these women would tell their men about the problems in their relationship and then go fixing everything as soon as they are given the chance.
As the days go by that women are trying to "fix" the problem, the more the men are convinced that there might really be a problem and that the relationship may really not be working.
That's usually when he starts becoming distant - he has realized that the relationship isn't really all that fun after all.
So what can you do to erase all his doubts about the future and stop him from drifting farther away? It may help if you look at things in a different angle.
If you look at the problem as something that could ruin your relationship, then it most probably will.
Instead, look at it in such a way that it becomes a challenge that the two of you can overcome together and that brings you closer to that better relationship that you have been wanting all along.
So don't go around trying to fix the problem yourself - instead, be the woman that he used to love.
If he sees you as someone worth fighting for, then you'll see that he'll take steps in fixing the problem himself - and he might not even know it.