The most important piece of advice I can offer to someone trying to get back with a girlfriend is to initially take a large step back from the situation.
The reason for this is that sometimes it is hard to see the woods for the trees.
In the heat of or in the midst of an argumentative or explosive situation it is all too easy to say and do things that will only inflame the situation.
Whilst this is easy for me to say please trust me on this one and try to remove yourself from the inside.
If you can detach yourself for a short period of time and try to become an onlooker you might begin to see a very different picture.
I am not asking you to walk away from your relationship or to remove yourself permanently in any way, I am simply suggesting that you take a couple of hours to take stock of just where you are.
You need to set some time for yourself and look very closely at the current state of the relationship and think very carefully about the person you're trying to get back with.
Girlfriend problems are part and parcel of almost every relationship and yours is a situation that man has experienced for thousands of years and no doubt will experience for thousands of years to come.
With the passage of time numerous solutions on how to get back with a girlfriend have been tried and tested.
Some work and some don't but the overwhelming majority of those that work can be attributed to one thing.
That one thing is a plan.
In order for you to get back together you most definitely will need a well formulated plan.
I am not talking about a bunch of flowers and a box of chocolates, nor am I thinking about a nice romantic meal.
These are things you can do any day of the week and on the excitement scale they rate about 1/10.
Now, what you need to do is something completely different, is something unconventional, something that she will not forget forget for a very long time.
You need to excite her and completely sweep her off her feet.
Your plan needs to be unique otherwise you run the risk of just being "Mister more of the same".
And rest assured she will not remember " more of the same".
The reason for this is that sometimes it is hard to see the woods for the trees.
In the heat of or in the midst of an argumentative or explosive situation it is all too easy to say and do things that will only inflame the situation.
Whilst this is easy for me to say please trust me on this one and try to remove yourself from the inside.
If you can detach yourself for a short period of time and try to become an onlooker you might begin to see a very different picture.
I am not asking you to walk away from your relationship or to remove yourself permanently in any way, I am simply suggesting that you take a couple of hours to take stock of just where you are.
You need to set some time for yourself and look very closely at the current state of the relationship and think very carefully about the person you're trying to get back with.
Girlfriend problems are part and parcel of almost every relationship and yours is a situation that man has experienced for thousands of years and no doubt will experience for thousands of years to come.
With the passage of time numerous solutions on how to get back with a girlfriend have been tried and tested.
Some work and some don't but the overwhelming majority of those that work can be attributed to one thing.
That one thing is a plan.
In order for you to get back together you most definitely will need a well formulated plan.
I am not talking about a bunch of flowers and a box of chocolates, nor am I thinking about a nice romantic meal.
These are things you can do any day of the week and on the excitement scale they rate about 1/10.
Now, what you need to do is something completely different, is something unconventional, something that she will not forget forget for a very long time.
You need to excite her and completely sweep her off her feet.
Your plan needs to be unique otherwise you run the risk of just being "Mister more of the same".
And rest assured she will not remember " more of the same".
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