"Help my save my marriage!" Those cries for help are not uncommon at all.
All marriages start on a very high note - with all those ceremonies, the honey moon, etc.
It all starts in a dream way - unfortunately, the only way a marriage can go from there is down.
Sometimes things just don't work out, and both of the couples realize this, and they get divorced by mutual consent, heartbroken but stronger.
But sometimes, one side doesn't want the marriage to end, but his or her spouse does.
This is where trouble starts.
And this is where I had been.
I am now going to tell you one thing: that you are asking for help to save your marriage is a very positive sign that you are actually going to save your marriage.
If you try to stop your divorce by yourself, due to the desperation and stress of the situation, you are often unable to think clearly and get even further away from saving your marriage.
This is what I had done and all I achieved was that my spouse was now completely fed up with me.
The first advice anyone is going to give you is that you should stop crying.
My advice is similar, but not in the sense that "stop crying and straighten your life!", but in the sense that "Cry, but do not let your spouse know that you are crying.
" The fact to saving any marriage is to be less accessible.
 If you are crying and begging all the time - you are very accessible and there's one law in the universe: If you can NOT access a thing, you are going to desire that thing more than you would, if you were able to access it.
Let me congratulate you again for seeking help to save your marriage - seeking advice from outside is the best thing you can do at the moment.