When your boyfriend tells you he wants a break from the relationship, you feel that he might be gone for good. You still love him and want him back and so that might make you turn to your family and friends for advice. Since they are on your side, they will tell you to let him go and find someone else. The problem will be that they do not have to face a lonely future without the man they love. But you are afraid that will happen to you if you let him go. Besides that, you know that he is the only man for you.
However, the advice your family and friends gave you is good up to a point, you do have to let him go for now. Not forever, but just for a few weeks. The best way to get him to beg you to take him back, is to ignore him. If you have been chasing him or calling him constantly, it will have to stop. As long as he feels you cannot live without him, you will never get him back. But if you make him feel that he is losing you, he will change his attitude immediately. That is human nature, as long as something is easy or always there it is unappreciated, Take that same thing away and tell them they cannot have it anymore and a person will fight like a tiger to get it back.
That is why ignoring your ex boyfriend is the best way to get him to beg you to take him back. By taking yourself completely out of his life and acting as if he does not exist, he will think he cannot have you anymore. But this will not happen over night, it may take a few weeks, so you will have to be patient. He will need time to experience his life without you and notice that you have stopped trying to get him back. During this time it would be wise for you to take a vacation or visit out of town relatives, if you can. If that is not possible at least stay out of his sight.
This will not be easy, but you have to make him see that his life is not complete without you. Once he feels the pain of losing you, he will be the one wanting his ex back. If you are always around, that can never happen. He has to have time to appreciate the good times he had with you and yearn to have them back.
However, the advice your family and friends gave you is good up to a point, you do have to let him go for now. Not forever, but just for a few weeks. The best way to get him to beg you to take him back, is to ignore him. If you have been chasing him or calling him constantly, it will have to stop. As long as he feels you cannot live without him, you will never get him back. But if you make him feel that he is losing you, he will change his attitude immediately. That is human nature, as long as something is easy or always there it is unappreciated, Take that same thing away and tell them they cannot have it anymore and a person will fight like a tiger to get it back.
That is why ignoring your ex boyfriend is the best way to get him to beg you to take him back. By taking yourself completely out of his life and acting as if he does not exist, he will think he cannot have you anymore. But this will not happen over night, it may take a few weeks, so you will have to be patient. He will need time to experience his life without you and notice that you have stopped trying to get him back. During this time it would be wise for you to take a vacation or visit out of town relatives, if you can. If that is not possible at least stay out of his sight.
This will not be easy, but you have to make him see that his life is not complete without you. Once he feels the pain of losing you, he will be the one wanting his ex back. If you are always around, that can never happen. He has to have time to appreciate the good times he had with you and yearn to have them back.
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