Suffering from a breakup? One little issue seemed to just explode into a monstrous thing that has been blown way out of proportion.
Nasty things were said and now ...
you are broken up.
You know you will probably get back together at some point, but for right now, you are in no hurry to get back together.
You both need a breather.
In the meantime, it is time to change your relationship.
You will no longer be weak.
You are stronger, thanks to the breakup.
Time to implement the new stronger you that will certainly get their attention.
You are going to get inside their mind to your advantage.
Move on with your life.
You have had enough.
At least that is the impression you want to give.
You will no longer return phone calls.
You will no longer call your ex.
Break off all contact for now.
Do not even answer the phone, unless you know it is someone else.
Get out more.
Go out and have some fun.
Do anything other than sitting around thinking about your ex.
While you are out you might bump into some people you and your ex know.
Show them how happy you are.
You want the word to get around.
Once you ex hears how much fun you are having, their attitude will certainly change about you.
Start dating again.
You deserve the best and you are either going to find it with someone else or you ex is going to come crawling back.
Make it known that you just had a breakup and are in no hurry to get into anything serious.
You need some more fun and adventure in your life and you are free to do that.
When you ex hears you are dating, they will have a complete mind shift towards you.
Try the above.
What will happen is you will now be this independent, strong and confident person.
You will have the power in your relationship with your ex.
He or she who has the power ...
gets to watch their ex come crawling back.